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Thursday, July 2, 2009

Let the Fireworks Begin!

Summer is in full swing, and if your love life seems to be 'fizzling' instead of 'sizzling' then you have come to the right place! Since everyone is more conscious of how and where they spend their money these days, deals can be found everywhere. The same is true when it comes to sexy lingerie and intimate bedroom toys and games. In fact, this weekend, in honor of 4th of July, Lover's Lane is offering FREE SHIPPING on all orders over $50! Check out the website here, and get ready to see stars in the bedroom! Don't forget to use code JULY50 to receive free shipping.

Half of Americans Use Vibrators, Study Claims

Live Science recently released this article about Vibrator use in the U.S. -

About half of American adults indicate using a vibrator, according to a new survey that sheds light on acts that take place beneath the covers and behind closed doors.
The survey was funded, however, by Church and Dwight Co. Inc., maker of Trojan brand sexual health products. It finds it's not just women taking advantage of the battery-operated tickle toy. Forty-five percent of men said they'd employed a vibrator, with most heterosexual men doing so during foreplay or intercourse with a female partner. About 17 percent of men said they used a vibrator for solo masturbation.
And while vibrators are often hidden in sock drawers or beneath the bed, the study results suggest their use is a sign of a positive and healthy sex life. In fact, female vibrator users were significantly more likely to have had a gynecological exam during the past year and to have performed genital self-examination during the previous month.
Women who used vibrators also reported better sex, including higher sexual desire and arousal, as well as orgasm. However, there was no significant difference in general sexual satisfaction between female vibrator users and non-users.
"The study about women's vibrator use affirms what many doctors and therapists have known for decades — that vibrator use is common, it's linked to positive sexual function such as desire and ease of orgasm, and it's rarely associated with any side effects," said study researcher Debby Herbenick, associate director of Indiana University's Center for Sexual Health Promotion.
The new results are based on two studies, one surveying more than 2,000 women and the other more than 1,000 men (ages 18 to 60), both of which are published this week in the Journal of Sexual Medicine.

posted: 29 June 2009 10:51 am ET
(the full article can be found at the link below)
http://www.livescience.com/health/090629-vibrator-use.html

Grand Finale!

For those of you who are lucky enough to live close to a Lover's Lane retail location, they are running a Red, White and Blue sale all 4th of July weekend long. The deal is in store only, but runs Friday thru Monday at all locations. So if you live in the midwest, and want to know where the closest store is to you, check out www.loverslanestore.com . Have a Great 4th Weekend!

Monday, June 1, 2009

It's the Rabbit Habit! - Caution: May Become Habit Forming.


Look out! This toy will become habit forming! The rabbit habit was designed with all the benefits of the original rabbit vibrator, but with many more perks. Even if you’ve never tried a vibrator before, this is a great beginner’s vibe. The rabbit habit is cordless, it’s 5” inches long and 1 ½ " inches in diameter. It has a clear purple shaft with pearls of pleasure that are on a track for vaginal passage stimulation. You can adjust the speed from a slow start to a fast finish. The rabbit ears are great for clitoral stimulation, and they vibrate to heighten the pleasure. With the double feature of the shaft and the clitoral stimulation, this vibrator is sure to take your orgasms to the next level! It is made from elastomer which is a more hygenic material than jelly, it is phthalate free, has a sleek design to increase position capability, and has a slightly bendable shaft that can be shifted into your favorite position of pleasure. So, whether this is your first vibe, or you’re adding to your collection, this is a purchase that is well worth trying out. Who knows…this may become a habit you won’t want to kick.

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Sex Toys for Vegans!

Today is EARTH DAY! Every year on April 22nd the world makes sure to make a conscious effort to better our environment. So in honor of Mother Nature, here are some environmentally/vegan friendly products you can find at your local Lover’s Lane store or loverslane.com.

Lover’s Lane is now carrying a brand new line of lubes and stimulators. The company who produces these products are called Intimate Organics. All of their products are vegan friendly, paraben free or glycerin free, DEA free, naturally derived, and USDA Certified Organic. There are four products Lover’s Lane is carrying:

Embrace: A vaginal tightening gel that does not contain the ingredient Alum. Alum is used in most tightening creams, but it can be harmful as it dries out the vaginal walls and could lead to toxicity. Instead, Embrace uses Capsicum, which causes the vaginal walls to contract and gives a warming sensation. Use product about 1 hour prior to intercourse and it will last about 4-5 hours.

Intense: A clitoral stimulating gel that uses Japanese peppermint oil instead of menthol to create a cooling/tingling sensation. By replacing menthol with the Japanese peppermint oil, the chance of experiencing a dried and irritated vagina and clitoris are eliminated.

Adventure: An anal relaxing spray that smells of oranges. This spray contains no Benzocaine, which numbs the area it is placed on, which can lead to damage to the anal cavity. Instead, Intimate Organics uses a natural clove oil, which relaxes the anal muscles and still allows sensations, which helps to eliminate the chance of anal damage. To use, spray twice and allow to soak in for about five minutes.

Hydra: What an amazing lubricant! This lube is waterbased, but get this… it’s NOT sticky! It feels like a woman’s natural juices. I couldn’t believe how great it felt. Hydra has no glycerine, but instead uses aloe and other organic extracts.




Other great products that are vegan friendly from Lover’s Lane :

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

The We-Vibe : One of the best sex toys of 2009

Friday, February 6, 2009

The Sex Toy That WILL Change Your LIFE!!

I just want to start off this post saying that I am a BIG fan of trying out the latest and greatest in bedroom technologies… to me it’s like the famous Forrest Gump line, “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you’re gonna get!”

I had read about the We-Vibe for some time now… I bought one… but due to uncontrollable circumstances I hadn’t had a chance to use it until this past weekend. If I could sum up this latest and greatest product in one word it would be…absolutelyamazinglywonderful! Ok, I know that’s really three words put together to form an all-new word, but it really is that great! Here’s what the manufacturer has to say about the product:

(From the We-Vibe website)


Introducing the We-Vibe

The We-Vibe is a brand new adult lifestyle luxury product from Standard Innovation Corp.

Unique in design, this revolutionary product is the first ever toy that can be used while making love. The innovative design allows for both external and internal stimulation for women engaging in both solo and partner play.

The We-Vibe is hands free, strap free and wireless. Created from medical grade silicone, the We-Vibe is soft and conforms to the female shape, making it comfortable and easy to use.

Discreet in size, the We-Vibe is approximately 3.25 inches long and 1 inch wide, weighing only 60 grams (2 ounces) making it ideal for travel and it's waterproof!

It is also rechargeable and boasts powerful dual motors and offers dual vibe stimulation in all the right places for both the man and the woman!

Now that you have the basics, here is what I have to say about this absolutelyamazinglywonderful product:

My fiancé was incredibly curious when I told him we were going to be testing out the We-Vibe, as a guy who loves gadgets he was trying to figure out just how this was going to work since the We-Vibe goes inside of me… and I was trying to figure out if the vibrations were going to be strong enough (I like incredibly strong vibrators and bullets) since the We-Vibe seemed to be average in vibration strength. We made sure to lube up the We-Vibe since we use condoms (if you don’t use condoms still lube up to avoid friction), even though the We-Vibe company assured me in an e-mail that the toy would not cause the condom to break. Anyway, this toy was incredible! I am not ashamed to say that my fiancé and I had never orgasmed at the same time before, but with the We-Vibe… We Did! The vibrations were more than strong enough for me, stimulating my g-spot and clitoris perfectly while I got to enjoy sex at the same time! It was a million percent better than any cockring I have ever tried. My fiancé agreed, he couldn’t believe how much better the We-Vibe felt to him than a cockring… Plus, he liked that he didn’t have to be restricted by a cockring to enjoy the vibrations; which weren’t just around the base of his penis but now he could enjoy the stimulation along the whole shaft!

I don’t often say this about many products, because every person enjoys something different from their sex toys, BUT I am going to say this now… EVERYONE will enjoy this product, and MUST own one! The We-Vibe is 100% Lola Love approved…again and again and again…

Sunday, March 15, 2009


This week are the St. Patrick’s Day festivities! Here are some of my favorite green products:

Kama Sutra Oil of Love in Original $15.00
I’ve mentioned Kama Sutra’s Oil of Love before, and I will mention it again because it really is one of the most delicious edible products to use in the bedroom. This oil heats up with friction and warm breath. I found it is a little too thick to use for an actual massage, so instead I use it for a little foreplay game. I like to call it Kiss and Go Seek. I have my fiancé close his eyes and I put the warming oil on all of my sensitive areas, then I make him kiss me (the warm breath) and touch me all over to find where my “hot” spots are. It’s a little tease for both of us AND it can help your partner learn where your favorite non-obvious pleasure zones are!

Tickle His Pickle $14.95
This book uses illustrations along with professional advice on how to treat your man’s most precious jewel. There are some really helpful tips, and my fiancé and I enjoyed reading the book together… I did the work and he reaped all the rewards.

Glow-in-the-Dark Foreplay Dice $6.95
I like this game because we can play it in the dark! We just set the dice under a lamp for about a half hour or so before heading into the bedroom and then roll the dice to see just how down and dirty we can get. It’s also great for couples who couldn’t be bothered with setting up a board game, or couples who are traveling because these dice are very inconspicuous.


Coochy Cream in Green Tea $10.95
Coochy Cream is by far the greatest shaving cream invention ever! The first time I used this product I was pleasantly surprised that afterward I had no razor bumps and my skin had never felt so smooth.

Bad Boy Buddies Glow Mouth $12.95
This stretchy, jelly masturbator provides amazing stimulation (or so I’ve been told). Entrance looks like a mouth and the inside is tight for maximum pleasure. Best of all it glows in the dark… how mesmerizing!

Silky Sheets in Pear Blossom $9.95
Not only does this make my sheets feel silky smooth and soft, but it smells AMAZING! You’ve got to try this stuff!

So get in the St. Patrick’s Day spirit and pick up some of these green products to make this holiday Irish, lucky, and fun!

Saturday, February 28, 2009



Lover’s Lane Joins the Fight Against Breast Cancer

Every year, over 200,000 new cases of breast cancer are diagnosed among women of all ages and races, that’s one woman with breast cancer every three minutes. Women in the United States have a 12% chance of developing breast cancer, which is up from 5% in 1960. Regrettably, over 40,000 women die from this disease each year. Breast cancer, like other forms of cancer, has no known cure. The only thing a doctor can offer to a patent right now is treatment. That is why Lover’s Lane decided to join in the fight against breast cancer.

In the Spring of 2008, Lover’s Lane, a Michigan based company with over 30 retail locations, began their campaign “Bare & Wear For a Cause”. The “Bare & Wear For a Cause” campaign, which appeared in every catalog and on their website Loverslane.com, promised the donation of 10% of the sales from their breast jewelry pages to breast cancer foundations. Sales for these items totaled just over $35,000 in the year 2008. True to their word, Lover’s Lane donated $2,000 to the National Breast Cancer Foundation, where just over 79% of all donations are used for program expenses which include; research, education, and funding for free mammograms. Lover’s Lane also donated $1,596.50 to Susan G. Komen for the Cure, where over 50% of all donations go towards educating others about breast cancer and research in search of a cure.

If you would like to help out in the fight against breast cancer, you can head to Loverslane.com where you will find beautiful breast jewelry. Lover’s Lane breast jewelry is non-piercing and the average cost is around $20, that’s $2 donated to a breast cancer foundation. Or, you can check out a breast cancer event in your area. There are many different events that you can participate in throughout the year. The Susan G. Komen foundation has several different events taking place in over 450 cities across the United States, including the Breast Cancer 3-Day Walk and the Komen Race for the Cure.



About Lover’s Lane: Lover’s Lane has 30 store locations in Michigan, Illinois, and Indiana. They also have a 132 page catalog, and website www.loverslane.com . In February 2008, Lover’s Lane was featured on WFLD Fox32 in Chicago for their selection of Valentine’s Day gifts available; and they were voted the Detroit Metro Times “Best Adult Novelty Store” in 1998, 1999, 2001, 2004, 2006, 2007, and 2008.

Friday, February 27, 2009

The P-Spot..... Where it is and how to enjoy its pleasures....

So everyone has heard of the g-spot, but how about the p-spot? I was completely unfamiliar with the p-spot a few years ago until I read an article in Cosmo about the male prostate. That’s right, the p-spot is the prostate, and it is packed with nerves just like a woman’s g-spot! It has been said that it is THE most POWERFUL orgasm that a man can have… the problem is, getting a man to let you stimulate the prostate. I was curious after reading the article and decided to try out stimulating my boyfriends prostate, I didn’t even mention it to him… I just went for it and he was shocked! He didn’t realize that it could be a pleasure zone, he never even wanted to think about it for fear of homosexuality. Let me stress that a man enjoying having his prostate stimulated WILL NOT make him a homosexual (not that there is anything wrong with homosexuality).

Ok so there are two ways to stimulate the prostate, fingers or toys…enter the Aneros brand. Aneros is the manufacturer of the world’s only medically patented prostate massagers. They produce a variety of different shapes and sizes, however the quality of the products and their effects are the same. All Aneros products are made from high-quality, non-porous, medical grade plastic so that they are hypoallergenic, easy to sanitize, and fun to use. Just add a little lube and enjoy the ride, it’s perfect for solo sex or while having intercourse with a partner. Here is a little more info on the Aneros brand:

“The medically researched and designed Aneros Massagers were developed specifically to massage the prostate gland and perineum, which can greatly enhance sensitivity and sexual function. Most men are not aware of the direct relationship between prostate health and sexual performance until it is too late, and many begin experiencing prostate problems as early as their 30’s. Oftentimes, this results in prostatitis, enlarged prostate, erectile dysfunction and/or loss of libido. Numerous testimonials reveal the power of the Aneros Massagers to improve these conditions as well as the overall sex lives of men and their partners.”

“The Aneros Stimulator is one of a kind!! It is medically researched, designed, and patented. The Aneros is a combination of modern scientific knowledge and ancient Eastern erotic massage.”

There are three distinct parts to the Aneros Stimulaor:

1) The Head and Stem: Designed so that a man can enjoy hands-free prostate massage. The head provides pressure to the prostate for an effective massage that is controlled by the man’s sphincter contractions. The stem has slight curves to provide stimulation along the anal canal and a tapered neck help keep it in place.

2) The Perineum Tab: Designed to stimulate and apply pressure to the perineum area, which is the area between the scrotum and anus of a man. This is the area where an external prostate massage can be performed. The combination of the external pressure and massage by the perineum tab and the internal massage with the head and stem have been known to result in what many refer to as the “Super-O”. The “Super-O” is when a man has many little full-body orgasms, without ejaculating, and then more large full-body orgasms before finally ejaculating.

3) The Handle: Used simply for ease of inserting and removing the Aneros toy. The handle is not to be used to move the Aneros Stimulator up and down the anal canal, it is counter-productive and will not allow for proper prostate massage.


How the Aneros Stimulators work:

“When the sphincter contracts, the head is pushed towards the prostate while the abutment (Perineum Tab) pushes up against the perineum. The resulting action is the application of pressure between the head and abutment – effectively massaging several organs at once, including the prostate, Cowper’s gland, and penile bulb.”


So, take the plunge guys! The Aneros Stimulator will not only help keep your prostate healthy, which is important (if you get prostate cancer and have to have the prostate removed, erections become a thing of the past), BUT it will also give that incredible “Super-O” that many men didn’t even know existed.

The Aneros Stimulator is 100% Lola Love approved. You can find the Aneros MGX ($48.) and the Aneros Helix ($67.) at LoversLane.com.