Intimacy Advisor

Saturday, February 28, 2009



Lover’s Lane Joins the Fight Against Breast Cancer

Every year, over 200,000 new cases of breast cancer are diagnosed among women of all ages and races, that’s one woman with breast cancer every three minutes. Women in the United States have a 12% chance of developing breast cancer, which is up from 5% in 1960. Regrettably, over 40,000 women die from this disease each year. Breast cancer, like other forms of cancer, has no known cure. The only thing a doctor can offer to a patent right now is treatment. That is why Lover’s Lane decided to join in the fight against breast cancer.

In the Spring of 2008, Lover’s Lane, a Michigan based company with over 30 retail locations, began their campaign “Bare & Wear For a Cause”. The “Bare & Wear For a Cause” campaign, which appeared in every catalog and on their website Loverslane.com, promised the donation of 10% of the sales from their breast jewelry pages to breast cancer foundations. Sales for these items totaled just over $35,000 in the year 2008. True to their word, Lover’s Lane donated $2,000 to the National Breast Cancer Foundation, where just over 79% of all donations are used for program expenses which include; research, education, and funding for free mammograms. Lover’s Lane also donated $1,596.50 to Susan G. Komen for the Cure, where over 50% of all donations go towards educating others about breast cancer and research in search of a cure.

If you would like to help out in the fight against breast cancer, you can head to Loverslane.com where you will find beautiful breast jewelry. Lover’s Lane breast jewelry is non-piercing and the average cost is around $20, that’s $2 donated to a breast cancer foundation. Or, you can check out a breast cancer event in your area. There are many different events that you can participate in throughout the year. The Susan G. Komen foundation has several different events taking place in over 450 cities across the United States, including the Breast Cancer 3-Day Walk and the Komen Race for the Cure.



About Lover’s Lane: Lover’s Lane has 30 store locations in Michigan, Illinois, and Indiana. They also have a 132 page catalog, and website www.loverslane.com . In February 2008, Lover’s Lane was featured on WFLD Fox32 in Chicago for their selection of Valentine’s Day gifts available; and they were voted the Detroit Metro Times “Best Adult Novelty Store” in 1998, 1999, 2001, 2004, 2006, 2007, and 2008.

Friday, February 27, 2009

The P-Spot..... Where it is and how to enjoy its pleasures....

So everyone has heard of the g-spot, but how about the p-spot? I was completely unfamiliar with the p-spot a few years ago until I read an article in Cosmo about the male prostate. That’s right, the p-spot is the prostate, and it is packed with nerves just like a woman’s g-spot! It has been said that it is THE most POWERFUL orgasm that a man can have… the problem is, getting a man to let you stimulate the prostate. I was curious after reading the article and decided to try out stimulating my boyfriends prostate, I didn’t even mention it to him… I just went for it and he was shocked! He didn’t realize that it could be a pleasure zone, he never even wanted to think about it for fear of homosexuality. Let me stress that a man enjoying having his prostate stimulated WILL NOT make him a homosexual (not that there is anything wrong with homosexuality).

Ok so there are two ways to stimulate the prostate, fingers or toys…enter the Aneros brand. Aneros is the manufacturer of the world’s only medically patented prostate massagers. They produce a variety of different shapes and sizes, however the quality of the products and their effects are the same. All Aneros products are made from high-quality, non-porous, medical grade plastic so that they are hypoallergenic, easy to sanitize, and fun to use. Just add a little lube and enjoy the ride, it’s perfect for solo sex or while having intercourse with a partner. Here is a little more info on the Aneros brand:

“The medically researched and designed Aneros Massagers were developed specifically to massage the prostate gland and perineum, which can greatly enhance sensitivity and sexual function. Most men are not aware of the direct relationship between prostate health and sexual performance until it is too late, and many begin experiencing prostate problems as early as their 30’s. Oftentimes, this results in prostatitis, enlarged prostate, erectile dysfunction and/or loss of libido. Numerous testimonials reveal the power of the Aneros Massagers to improve these conditions as well as the overall sex lives of men and their partners.”

“The Aneros Stimulator is one of a kind!! It is medically researched, designed, and patented. The Aneros is a combination of modern scientific knowledge and ancient Eastern erotic massage.”

There are three distinct parts to the Aneros Stimulaor:

1) The Head and Stem: Designed so that a man can enjoy hands-free prostate massage. The head provides pressure to the prostate for an effective massage that is controlled by the man’s sphincter contractions. The stem has slight curves to provide stimulation along the anal canal and a tapered neck help keep it in place.

2) The Perineum Tab: Designed to stimulate and apply pressure to the perineum area, which is the area between the scrotum and anus of a man. This is the area where an external prostate massage can be performed. The combination of the external pressure and massage by the perineum tab and the internal massage with the head and stem have been known to result in what many refer to as the “Super-O”. The “Super-O” is when a man has many little full-body orgasms, without ejaculating, and then more large full-body orgasms before finally ejaculating.

3) The Handle: Used simply for ease of inserting and removing the Aneros toy. The handle is not to be used to move the Aneros Stimulator up and down the anal canal, it is counter-productive and will not allow for proper prostate massage.


How the Aneros Stimulators work:

“When the sphincter contracts, the head is pushed towards the prostate while the abutment (Perineum Tab) pushes up against the perineum. The resulting action is the application of pressure between the head and abutment – effectively massaging several organs at once, including the prostate, Cowper’s gland, and penile bulb.”


So, take the plunge guys! The Aneros Stimulator will not only help keep your prostate healthy, which is important (if you get prostate cancer and have to have the prostate removed, erections become a thing of the past), BUT it will also give that incredible “Super-O” that many men didn’t even know existed.

The Aneros Stimulator is 100% Lola Love approved. You can find the Aneros MGX ($48.) and the Aneros Helix ($67.) at LoversLane.com.