How To Give A Blow Job Like A Pro

So, you’re interested in getting some instruction on how to give a BJ. It is definitely a learned talent. When you give your first blow-job, it is quite a nerve racking experience. You don’t want to suck too hard or accidentally bite the penis, and you want it to appear as though you’re a pro. Well, I can tell you from experience, I’ve been giving blow-jobs to the same man for over 12 years now, and just this past year, I must say I’ve really mastered a technique. I have, over the 12 years, had a technique, but wasn’t secure in knowing, "Hey I give good head." Now that sounds ridiculous right? Nope, there are many women out there who are not sure if what they’re doing is right, not that there’s a right or wrong, but are unsure if they’re lover is really enjoying their technique.
There are also women out there that have no desire, "to put that thing in their mouth!" (I’ve actually heard that from other women.) That is an absurd thought. Most women that I’ve spoken to that have such an opinion believe that because of sanitary reasons. Some have said, "It’s just not sanitary." And to those I state the simple fact that your mouth has millions more germs than a clean penis. In fact, all the pre ejaculate, cleans out the penis, so the penis is cleaner than your mouth. So now that we’ve cleared that up, we can move on.

One major concern out there is that it won’t taste or smell good.

One easy way to avoid that is to shower or bathe before you get started. I’m not saying to tell your man that he sticks. But the truth is, just like women, men will smell a little more when they haven’t cleansed in a while. It’s a simple fact of life. So have fun with the shower or bath. But if that’s not possible, or if you still don’t like the taste, try some flavored lubricants, Wet flavored lubricants are my favorite. Lube is always well appreciated, the more slippery the penis is, the happier it will be! If you don't want the goopiness of lube, you can now buy a flavored spray. There are also flavored condoms, that way, you’re not even wrapping your mouth around the penis, you’re wrapping it around the penis’ covering, although I've heard mixed reviews of those. You're better off using a flavored lube on an unlubed condom.

Another concern is swallowing the ejaculate.

This can sometimes be a major issue. I will be honest, I in now way shape or form like to swallow cum. I admire those women that can and like to. Sometimes I wish I can do it for my man, and I’ve been with him for over 12 years! I just don’t like the consistency. I can’t swallow what feels like a big glob of goop. And if you feel the same way, that’s fine. The point of adult play is for all involved to have fun. Your man should not pressure you to swallow. I know some men feel that it completes lovemaking or that if you don’t swallow you’re not really serious. This is something that should be discussed if there’s any problems or concerns. You should not be pressured to swallow. And if you don’t than still make it exciting when he does cum. Rub it all over your breasts, or just as he’s about to cum, let him finish by jerking off and spewing on your ass. Find out what you’re man likes. And enjoy yourself. Enthusiasm is the key. Men are very excited by a woman who really enjoys pleasuring him.

So here are some tips to give good head.

• Look into his eyes, while sucking his cock. This is the #1 piece of advice I can give. It brings you onto a new level. And men love to watch!
  
  
• If you’re not using lubricant, make sure he’s well lubed. Make sure your tongue is really wet and lick the entire shaft of his penis.
  
  
• To get your man excited, take his penis out of his pants or get him naked, and run your fingers very gently over the underside of his cock.
  
  
• If he’s not totally hard, just start to lick his cock and take it gently in your mouth because just like women, some men take a little while to get excited too.
  
  
• Breathe on his cock and blow gently with your hot breath.
  
  
• Gently massage his balls. Don’t squeeze, the testicles are very sensitive.
  
  
• Lick his balls or try this. Put both of his balls in your mouth. Use one hand to circle the top of the sac, and gently pull it down to the bring the balls together into a neat swallow able package. (He should probably be standing up for this) Make sure you cover your teeth with your lips and use your tongue to give his balls a good lapping.
  
  
• Don’t be afraid to use your hands on the penis too, giving good head involves using all your resources to make the experience exciting for your partner.