It's time for a new sex position!

Directions:

Have him sit down in a low chair with his legs relaxed. Facing him, straddle him with your feet on the floor, slowly lowering yourself onto his erection with your knees bent at a ninety-degree angle. Start by letting just the tip of his penis enter you, then lower yourself inch by inch until you’re allowing him full entry by bearing all the way down on his thighs.

Why You'll Love It:

This is a highly affectionate pose with maximum upper-body contact, which naturally lends itself to languid kissing, hugging, and caressing. Best of all, since you’re in the driver’s seat you can stay in sync with him, so as a final reward you may be able to experience that explosive, but often elusive, moment: the simultaneous orgasm! This racy rendezvous is a surefire way for combustible carnal results.

Source:  http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/time-bomb-sex-position

Eco-Friendly Sex Toys!

There are so many ways to celebrate Earth Week. You could pick up trash, donate money to save the manatees, reach out and hug a tree, or you could get real eco-friendly with someone naked. With organic and environmentally sound sex toys, you’ll hardly seem green in the sack. They may not be yo’ mama’s sex toys, but they are Mother Nature approved.  To celebrate Earth Week, Lover's Lane now has their catalog in a digital format online!  Click here to shop our digital catalog.

Adding Intimacy To The Bedroom: Pillow Talk - Lesson 2

Lesson Two - The Art of Pillow Talk

There is a certain level of skill to using successful dirty talk in the bedroom. Of course, it's always acceptable to simply let it rip and say what's on your mind, like "faster, faster!" However, before the throes of passion take over, wowing your partner with some racy pillow talk will rev things up quickly, if done properly.

First step is to ease into the conversation and set the stage for what is to follow. Offer a tease, or a compliment. Keep it simple with a little bit of naughty involved.

For example: "Why don't you come here and let me show you how much I love every inch of you?" or "You look so damn sexy tonight."

Put the focus on them and you'll not only be catering to their sexual nature, but giving a boost to the ego, as well, which will help your lover have more confidence in returning your pillow talk efforts. Notice, you don't have to use explicit language to convey the meaning to your partner. Not to say that you shouldn't. Only you and your partner know the limits.

Once you've peaked their interest, continue to up the heat level in your talk by giving a play by play of how you feel, what you intend to do, or how he/she could bring you more pleasure.

For example: "That makes me so hot when you touch me there." or "I want to ride on top tonight.." Again, use what comes to mind and comes naturally to you. Use a little creativity and remember, you are spicing up your love making, not having a conversation over dinner. Though, feel free to use dirty talk during your supper, you might find that night's dessert extra appealing.

Lastly, don't over-focus. Once the conversation is underway and the heat level is rising, enjoy the moment and don't worry about what to say next.

Here are a few exercises for you to try out before you make the move to creative pillow talk in the bedroom:

Practice saying words or phrases you might typically shy away from. If the word cock makes you laugh when you say it, recite it in the context of a sentence a few times until you no longer feel the urge to blush and giggle. The last thing you want to do is turn your sexy pillow play into a comedy of errors.

Read erotic literature aloud. Not only will this aid your comfort level, it will spark new ideas, phrases, and add to your bedroom vocabulary. You may also want to consider reading favorite passages to your lover instead of coming up with your own seductive phrases. To take things a step further, read your favorite passages and then tell your lover that's what you want to do to them, or have done to you. Try authors like Anne Leland http://www.anneleland.com and books from Midnight Showcase or Ellora's Cave.

Ask for your partner's help. If you are hesitant, embarrassed, or just simply not sure your partner will respond well to sensual talk, ask for their involvement upfront. Better yet, show them this article and say "I'd like to try this tonight? What do you think?" Chances are, opening up the dialogue ahead of time will assuage your concerns and get the proverbial ball rolling!

Consider using props. There are a multitude of games and other prompts available through a variety of outlets. Purchase one to use in the bedroom to spark your dirty talk efforts or use your creative hand to make your own. Take a set of index cards and write a variety of instructional phrases on them such as "Massage the body part of your choice for two minutes and tell your partner how it feels or makes you feel" and "Share a fantasy encounter you'd like to have with your partner." This will prompt both you and your partner to engage in a passionate conversation.

Read up on new positions, techniques, toys, or anything else that sparks your imagination. Then share the information with your partner. Sometimes talking about the acts or introducing new sexy information into your conversation will have as powerful a stimuli effect on your passion triggers as coming up with pillow phrases will. A good resources for this purpose is http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/

Now that you have the knowledge and the resources, your homework for today is to take your learning and talk dirty to me! Okay, well, don't talk dirty to me; talk dirty to your partner. I just couldn't resist putting in another reference to an 80's classic.

By Barb Webb: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/99163/use_bedroom_basics_to_add_intimacy_pg2.html?cat=41

Adding Intimacy To The Bedroom: Talk Dirty To Me - Lesson 1

Lesson One - Talk Dirty to Me

Defined as "intimate conversation between lovers, typically taking place in bed"[1], the use of the phrase "pillow talk" has been recorded in use since 1939. Though undoubtedly, lovers have been indulging in this practice since couples first discovered the joys of sexual relations.

Pillow talk encompasses a full range of conversation from "how was your day?" to "yum, do that again." For the sake of our lesson, we're going to breeze over the contrite, polite conversation and dig into the naughty little bits that drive your mate wild.

Yes, you got it; this is a full-blown lesson on the art of talking dirty.

"What?" you say, "does this mean I have to use the f, p, and v words?" Not necessarily. The art of talking dirty goes a lot further than using explicit words. If you are uncomfortable with the notion of speaking up, being taken the wrong way, or having control in the bedroom, the suggestions and exercises contained in this lesson will help you alleviate your concerns and open up an exciting new experience for you and your lover.

Mastering this technique has been known to provide oodles of fun the bedroom, unleash your inner vixen, and transport you to a whole new level of intimacy in your relationship. Even if you already use a variety of lusty verbiage in the bedroom, you'll still find some new tricks and ideas in this lesson.

By Barb Webb: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/99163/use_bedroom_basics_to_add_intimacy.html?cat=41

Choosing The Right Dildo For You - Which Material?

There are so many styles and types of dildos, how do you know which type is best for you. Here's a simple guide to help you pick the material that suits your needs.

Silicone:  Among the highest quality dildos, many women love silicone for its lifelike feel and ability to retain body heat.  Non-porous and easy to clean (dishwasher safe - on the top rack), they can last for years, and mostly hypo-allergenic.

Latex:  You'll find that latex rubber dildos are everywhere but have limitations.  Not as lifelike and firm as silicone, they still serve a good purpose.  Latex is porous so make sure to clean it thoroughly with anti-bacterial toy cleaner after every use.

Jelly:  Jelly is a popular choice and innovation of the 90's.  They come in a variety of colors, are less expensive then most other dildos, and porous, so again wash well with anti-bacterial toy cleaner.

Lifelike:  Soft and fleshy, with a feeling of real human skin, these new generation materials feel like the real thing.  They take extra care to keep clean because of their porous material, but well worth having in your collection.  They need to be stored away from other toys though, so the composition doesn't degrade.

Acrylic:  Do you like your dildos HARD?  Then a plastic or acrylic dildo is for you.  They are easy to clean, non-porous, and enable you to reach your g-spot and anal erogenous zones with an abundance of pressure.

Glass:  At first thought, glass may seem like an odd choice, but what till you see the styles available.  Built to last a lifetime by craftsmen who make glass pipes, they're similar in hardness to acrylics and designed for both vaginal and anal pleasure.  They are hypo-allegenic and non-porous, dishwasher safe, and retain warmth and coolness.  Worth every penny.

No matter which material your choose, they are all great for satisfying your sexual needs.  Can't decide, try one of each.  Some styles are preferred more then others such as silicone or acrylic, but everyone's needs are different.  For those of you that have already invested in a collection of dildos, what material do you prefer?  Feel free to leave a comment.

Source:  ToyGasms by Dr. Sadie Allison and The Lover's Lane Staff

It's time for a new sex position to try!

Directions:

Find a tall-backed chair — such as one from your kitchen table or a desk — pad it with some pillows, and sit him down. Straddle his hardened member and lean back slightly, placing your hands on his knees. Extend your legs, one at a time, until each of your ankles is resting on one of his corresponding shoulders. Pump your booty back and forth at a speed that makes you moan. To supercharge your thrusting power, balance your weight between your ankles and your hands.

 

Why You'll Love It:

The Lap Dance has unmatched intimacy potential — how many people have seen you this close? This primo erotic view will give your guy fantasy material for weeks to come. Spice it up with some extra-special lingerie that you can seductively toss to turn him on to add even more steam to this sack session.

Source: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/lap-dance-sex-position

Some tips for Oral Sex

"A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is." - Barbara Bush.

Have you ever wondered how you can enhance your relationship and make oral sex better?   Have you looked for a way to add excitement to the bedroom but were unsure of maybe how to initiate?  Oral sex is one of the most common and intimate forms of pleasure partner's can experience together.  Intimacy plays a vital role in maintaining a long-term relationship, and oral sex is a great way to be intimate.

Embracing the art of oral sex is important. Here's some tips to making oral sex that much better.

• Cunnilingus is a great opportunity to practice sexual communicationn skills.  Tell your partner you will do only as she directs, letting her control every aspectof your dining experience.  If she is hesitant, simply stay patient and kiss the area lightly, reassuringly asking for guidence.  With a little practice, she'll take charge of her orgasm and you'll both be treated with intense and meaningful results.  The same technique can be used with fellatio.
• Oral sex is the best method to give your female partner a G-spot orgasm!  While stimulating her clitoris with your tongue., insert one or two fingers into her vagina, fingers upturned in a hook shape.  You only need to insert about hald of your finger's length.  Feel for a spongy area on the inside wall, press firmly, and then make a "come hither" motion to rub the area.  Quicken the pace of her orgasm builds.  You will feel the entire inside of her vagina swell around your fingers, meaning her climax is close at hand and she will probably feel the urge to urinate.  Make sure you've placed towels down to assure her no mess will be made, and the urge to simply submit to the new sensations.  Chances are she'll ejaculate a milky opaque substance...and your sex lives will never be the same.
• Tantalizing tips.  There are dozens of effective and sexy positions in which to perform cunnilingus.  Woman standing up also known as "The Standing O", Woman on all fours and man laying on his back in between her legs also known as "The Doggie Position", or Laying flat on your back with a pillow under the small of your back, also known as "Woman Reclining".

These are just some of the many things you can try to enhance your oral sex pleasure for her.  Stay tuned for more great information and tips related to oral sex coming soon!

Source:  The Art of Oral Sex by Ian and Alicia Denchasy

The revamp of IntimacyAdvisor.com

As 2010 is now in full swing, we have decided to revamp the infamous IntimacyAdvisor.com. 

Check back often for daily/weekly posts of articles, sex toy reviews, lingerie features, sexual health articles, catalog drops, sales, promotions, events, and much more! 

Not finding something specific you're looking for? Feel free to send an email if there is something specific you want to see on this website. We will be more then happy to do our best to assist in making sure everything you want to know you can find here.  Feel free to take a tour of posts past, and stay tuned for all the new great things to come in the future! 

The Lover's Lane Staff

The Gigi!

Item Description

Classy as it is functional, the Gigi blesses you with exciting style and extreme G-Spot pleasure! Powerful vibrations, complementary shaft curves, and multi-functional operations guide you into a world of sexual satisfaction. The Gigi's beautiful, seductive appearance couples with its perfectly tuned vibes to become one of the hottest sex toys.
Effective G-Spot vibrators come with salacious curves that make deeper penetration more comfortable and convenient. The Gigi G-Spot sex toy exhibits the shaft curve required for exceptional, intense internal stimulation. Why waste time trying to find your hidden love zone? The Gigi puts an end to these types of frustrating G-Spot search parties! Because of its precise shaft curve, you can locate your special spot quicker than ever.
Curves aren't enough, are they? You need a little something extra. Well, the Gigi's soft, flattened shaft head tops off that fabulous shaft curve, aiding in gentle G-Spot massage. Vibrations travel through the flattened shaft head to your aroused G-Spot, eliminating unwanted internal friction and wasted, purposeless vibrations. The toy is covered in soft, supple, nonporous silicone-plastic material that increases vibration resonance.
The Gigi is a multi-speed sex toy. You can choose from five different pulsation programs and seven different speeds. Additionally, this highly functional G-Spot vibrator is rechargeable, so you don't need batteries in the future - which saves you money, time, and effort! It comes with a one-year manufacturer warranty, a stylish box, and a handy storage bag.

Editorial Review

Wow! That's the only response I can muster at the present moment, after playing with my new Gigi sex toy - and this after a period of complete speechlessness, in which I was totally shocked by the unbelievable pleasure I experienced. I will do my best to describe how effective the Gigi is, but I'm not sure that my words can give this G-Spot vibrator the credit it clearly deserves. It is definitely my new favorite sex toy, and has quickly leaped over my old favorites - the Japenese G-Spot Squirmy, G-Rock, and others. I am so excited about my Gigi that I don't have much use for anything else.
First, I'd like to start with some comments about the packaging. Absolutely beautiful. Stunningly appealing, I'd say. The Gigi comes in a sexy black box, and the toy itself has plastic safeguard that covers it, molded perfectly to ensure the toy's integrity and safety are maintained. It also helps that the toy is easily accessible, as no scissors were needed and no fumbling with overly secure packaging happened. I simply removed the toy from the box and pulled out the charger, black satin bag, and instructional manual, which were all hidden beneath the toy and plastic covering. I must admit, I had to read the instructional manual before I played with the Gigi, and I found the directions helpful and uncomplicated.
So I finished reading the instruction manual at the right time - my seductive Gigi G-Spot vibrator was fully charged and ready for action! And I was ready, as well, to play with this gorgeous sex toy. I made sure that I was familiar with all the buttons and operations before getting down to business. I didn't want any trial and error process slowing me down once I got started, so I was prepared before the real fun began, and I didn't want to damage such a beautiful work of art by randomly pressing buttons. Within no time I mastered the controls, so it wasn't like I had to spend hours and hours messing with the Gigi before I could play with it.
Besides being pleased by the toy's angelic appearance, I was astounded by the Gigi's splendid texture, which is made of velvety silicone material. I don't know if any of you have struggled to clean a jelly or rubber or plastic sex toy, but I can't stand long, drawn out clean ups, and since silicone material is amongst the easiest materials to effectively clean (totally hygienic), the Gigi is a breeze to clean and store away in its satin bag. It's phthalate-free, too, which is always a positive feature in my book. The only real negative about silicone material is that silicone-based lubes are incompatible with silicone sex toys. But I can work around such a minor limitation, especially for a toy like this one!
I am in awe by the amount of power this medium-sized vibrator generates. It easily exceeds the power produced by the Japanese G-Spot Squirmy, G-Rock, and other popular mainstream G-Spot vibrators, so I was immediately impressed with this aspect. It has multi-speed options and several different functions. I would have counted all the many different speeds and functions, but such counting can be difficult when I am in a state of orgasmic ecstasy. I know that you understand what I am talking about. I could barely control myself, so a play-by-play review proved impossible. The Gigi's vibrations and functions are so intense that I could feel other parts of my body vibrate. I couldn't handle the highest intensity setting, but I love the mid-range vibration functions.
I played with the Gigi alone and while having fun with my partner. Though I had a good time on my solo mission, I had a better time with my partner controlling the Gigi, guiding it, holding it, and pleasing me. All I had to do was lie back, enjoy the ride, and orgasm multiple times. I want to warn all the women who are considering buying this fantastic sex toy: Because the Gigi is so powerful, so effective, you might want to throw away all your older vibrators. Why? You'll have no reason to use those outdated sex toys - not with the Gigi working its magic. It is worth every penny, and I consider it a justifiable investment. Just thinking about the Gigi gets me wet, so imagine how excited I feel when I play with it! Yes, the Gigi is here to stay and positive feedback its received in undeniable.

Additional Details

Size:

6.5" total length 4.5" insertable length 3.5" circumference

Battery Info:

Charger included.

Material:  This item is made of Phthalate Free material, Plastic, and Silicone.
Manufacturer:  Lelo

Source of this article:  http://www.vibereview.com