Coochy Cream - The Greatest Invention Ever!

I was talking to one of the girls that works at one of our retail stores about getting a close shave in the southern region. Working in the corporate office, I don't get to see much of the products hands on so I try to take a trip to the store weekly to find something new to try or experiment with.  So...she suggested a couple of products and I decided to go with the green tea formulation of Coochy Shave Cream. Usually I go for the Brazilian wax but there are times when I can't get there or can't get an appointment. The Swedish chick that used to do mine moved to a different town so I'm pretty much out of luck when it comes to getting a convenient appointment. For those that don't know what a Brazilian wax is, it is when you get the front and back porch trimmed to the skin. Done correctly and by someone with experience it only hurts for a couple seconds.

Coochy Shave Cream is a great blend of natural and organic properties but the one thing that keeps your skin soft and free of bumps, pimples and ingrown hairs is the tea tree oil. It also acts to help soothe the skin after the shave. Aloe Vera also aids in keeping the skin smooth and break-out free. Guys, you have no idea how bad an ingrown hair is down there so if your chick tells you get some of this, track it down. There are several different aromatic blends to choose from and after I got the tea tree version I got some samples of the others but I have to admit, the tea tree was the best. Who wants a cooter that smells like a basket of fruit? As much as I hate to admit it, I like Coochy Shave Cream more than any other female shave gel that's for sure.

While this is marketed for your private parts it is something that you can use on any part of your body. If it is good enough for the vag then it's good enough for the rest. I've used this on my leg and pits and got a smooth close shave without any kind of break out or razor burn. Of course you have to use a good razor to start with. I go with a triple blade because I personally think the four and five blade razors are a rip off. You don't need a lot of this to get the job done but if you are dealing with a thick lawn you will need to rinse and reapply it. The smell of it is intoxicating. Kinda like when you put clean sheets on the bed, take a shower and feel like you are in a cocoon. The tea tree blend comes in two sizes, eight ounce and sixteen ounces with a pump. The sixteen ounce is perfect for the shower, no caps or lids to fumble with.

This doesn't do anything to prevent a quick regrowth but it does work wonders if you are someone that gets ingrown hairs from shaving to the skin. Not everyone likes a naked landing strip; if you just want to do some maintenance this helps to prep the area and give you a good lather but without obstructing the view. It is always a daring proposition to work on your own back yard, you can easily go the wrong way with the razor and cut against the grain / growth of the hair. I'd suggest having someone do it for you but not everyone is as open minded as myself in that respect. If you are going to do your own back yard maintenance its best to scope things out with a mirror first then plan your attack. Shaving with the mirror is a no-no because you are going to see things reversed and that is a disaster waiting to happen.

Coochy Shave Cream [tea tree version] costs $10.95 for the eight ounce bottle, and honestly it's worth the $11 because I love the fact that this doesn't make me itchy and so far I have been rash and bump free. Now that I have tried it and fallen in love with it I have no problem spending the $11.

If you shave your privates but aren't satisfied with your current shave cream or gel then Coochy Cream is definitely worth checking out. It is safe for all external parts of the body so if you want to use it for other areas you can. For a close, "to the flesh" shave, this is a must-have product. I prefer the tea tree version but the others that Lover's Lane sells work just as well if you don't mind the scent of them. If you are scent-sensitive you can opt for their fragrance free version.

How To Give A Blow Job Like A Pro

So, you’re interested in getting some instruction on how to give a BJ. It is definitely a learned talent. When you give your first blow-job, it is quite a nerve racking experience. You don’t want to suck too hard or accidentally bite the penis, and you want it to appear as though you’re a pro. Well, I can tell you from experience, I’ve been giving blow-jobs to the same man for over 12 years now, and just this past year, I must say I’ve really mastered a technique. I have, over the 12 years, had a technique, but wasn’t secure in knowing, "Hey I give good head." Now that sounds ridiculous right? Nope, there are many women out there who are not sure if what they’re doing is right, not that there’s a right or wrong, but are unsure if they’re lover is really enjoying their technique.
There are also women out there that have no desire, "to put that thing in their mouth!" (I’ve actually heard that from other women.) That is an absurd thought. Most women that I’ve spoken to that have such an opinion believe that because of sanitary reasons. Some have said, "It’s just not sanitary." And to those I state the simple fact that your mouth has millions more germs than a clean penis. In fact, all the pre ejaculate, cleans out the penis, so the penis is cleaner than your mouth. So now that we’ve cleared that up, we can move on.

One major concern out there is that it won’t taste or smell good.

One easy way to avoid that is to shower or bathe before you get started. I’m not saying to tell your man that he sticks. But the truth is, just like women, men will smell a little more when they haven’t cleansed in a while. It’s a simple fact of life. So have fun with the shower or bath. But if that’s not possible, or if you still don’t like the taste, try some flavored lubricants, Wet flavored lubricants are my favorite. Lube is always well appreciated, the more slippery the penis is, the happier it will be! If you don't want the goopiness of lube, you can now buy a flavored spray. There are also flavored condoms, that way, you’re not even wrapping your mouth around the penis, you’re wrapping it around the penis’ covering, although I've heard mixed reviews of those. You're better off using a flavored lube on an unlubed condom.

Another concern is swallowing the ejaculate.

This can sometimes be a major issue. I will be honest, I in now way shape or form like to swallow cum. I admire those women that can and like to. Sometimes I wish I can do it for my man, and I’ve been with him for over 12 years! I just don’t like the consistency. I can’t swallow what feels like a big glob of goop. And if you feel the same way, that’s fine. The point of adult play is for all involved to have fun. Your man should not pressure you to swallow. I know some men feel that it completes lovemaking or that if you don’t swallow you’re not really serious. This is something that should be discussed if there’s any problems or concerns. You should not be pressured to swallow. And if you don’t than still make it exciting when he does cum. Rub it all over your breasts, or just as he’s about to cum, let him finish by jerking off and spewing on your ass. Find out what you’re man likes. And enjoy yourself. Enthusiasm is the key. Men are very excited by a woman who really enjoys pleasuring him.

So here are some tips to give good head.

• Look into his eyes, while sucking his cock. This is the #1 piece of advice I can give. It brings you onto a new level. And men love to watch!
  
  
• If you’re not using lubricant, make sure he’s well lubed. Make sure your tongue is really wet and lick the entire shaft of his penis.
  
  
• To get your man excited, take his penis out of his pants or get him naked, and run your fingers very gently over the underside of his cock.
  
  
• If he’s not totally hard, just start to lick his cock and take it gently in your mouth because just like women, some men take a little while to get excited too.
  
  
• Breathe on his cock and blow gently with your hot breath.
  
  
• Gently massage his balls. Don’t squeeze, the testicles are very sensitive.
  
  
• Lick his balls or try this. Put both of his balls in your mouth. Use one hand to circle the top of the sac, and gently pull it down to the bring the balls together into a neat swallow able package. (He should probably be standing up for this) Make sure you cover your teeth with your lips and use your tongue to give his balls a good lapping.
  
  
• Don’t be afraid to use your hands on the penis too, giving good head involves using all your resources to make the experience exciting for your partner.

Don't Sweat the Technique!

It's time again for another exciting sexual postion of the week! Hooray!  So this week, instead of snagging from my favorite artist/sex position master, Jane Seddon, I happened to read an article on a technique that maximizes clitoral stimulation, and puts a spin on the classic missionary.

 now with guns

The latest position actually does not involve any fireams, but increases the chance of the woman to have an EXPLODING ORGASM!!!  and ladies, which of you are not into one of those? Since I see no hands, I will continue...

okay, maybe one of you...

This position is called the Coital Alignment Technique,

 where "The penetrating partner lies above the receiving partner as in the missionary position, but moves upward along the woman's body, so that the base of the male's penis provides stimulation to her clitoris." with the focus on the pelvis area, and the rocking upward and downward stroke on the clitoris, the buildup is intensified and arousal leads to amazing Org...

another satisfied customer!

Ok, so it may not be that intense, but try it yourself to find out. There may be some truth behind all of this friction, or as wikipedia likes to also call this position, "ridin' high!"

Personally, I believe that even John Mayer has used this position, and admits to it in his Playboy interview when he says "It's all about geometry...It's sort of this weird up and over thing. You gotta think up and over." (you may have to scroll down close to the end of the page, I havent yet mastered how to link to something directly.)

so that is how John gets so many girls! I knew it wasn't the guitar thing...

by the way, for all this friction going on, you may need some lube! Don't forget that Lover's Lane has exactly what you need to stay slippery during sex! Check it out HERE!

(movie poster image from barrelhousemag.com, nun from thefrisky.com, house from firehosegames.com)

6 Mistakes Men Make

Hey guys, think you know everything there is to know about having sex with women? That erotic encyclopedia you carry around in your head may contain a lot of basic errors and omissions about women's sexuality -- errors that can lead to sex mistakes. That's because -- after learning the facts of life -- most of us are left to figure out sex for ourselves. Guys tend to take a lot of cues from adult movies, and we all know how true-to-life those are. Experience may help, but many women can be shy when talking about what they like.

To help us with some sex tips, WebMD asked two acclaimed sex educators, Tristan Taormino and Lou Paget, to tell us what they think are the most common sex mistakes men make with women.
Taormino is a prolific author, lecturer, and video producer. Her latest project is the Expert Guide educational video series from Vivid Ed. Paget is author of The Great Lover Playbook and other sex manuals, and she gives seminars nationwide.

Sex Mistake No.1: You Know What She Wants

Men often make assumptions about what a woman wants based upon what they've done with other women. But women aren't all the same. "You develop a repertoire as you mature sexually, but you should never assume that what worked for the last person is going to work for this person," Taormino says.
That applies not only to sexual predilections, but also to relationships, she says. "There are women who can have no-strings-attached sex, and women who can get attached very easily, and then everyone in between."

Sex Mistake No. 2: You Have All She Needs

Some women can't have an orgasm with less than 3,000 rpm. No human tongue or fingers can generate that kind of vibration. But men typically think something is wrong if a woman needs a vibrator.
"If the only way that a woman can achieve orgasm is with a vibrator, she's not broken," Taormino says.
Think of a vibrator as your assistant, not your substitute. Many couples use vibrators together. "While you're doing one thing, or two things, the vibrator can be doing something else," Taormino says.

Sex Mistake No. 3: Sex Feels the Same for Men and Women

Paget says there tends to be a "huge disconnect" between men and women in the ways that sex feels good.
"When a man has intercourse with a woman, and his penis goes into her body, that sensation is so off the charts for most men, they cannot imagine that it isn't feeling the same way for her," Paget says. "It couldn't be further from the truth." The inside of the vagina is probably less sensitive than the outer parts for most women. Also, deep thrusting may not feel so nice on the receiving end. If the penis is too long, "it feels like you're getting punched in the stomach," Paget says. "It makes you feel nauseous."

Sex Mistake No. 4: You Know Your Way Around a Woman's Anatomy

Most guys know generally what a clitoris is and where to find it. That's not to say that they really understand it. More than 30 years ago, at the start of the "sexual revolution," a best-selling book called the Joy of Sex got Americans hip to the orgasmic importance of the clitoris. But the belief that women must be able to orgasm from vaginal penetration stubbornly persists. "I still get letters from people who say things like, my wife can't [orgasm] from intercourse unless she has clitoral stimulation -- please help," Taormino says. "I want to write back and say, 'OK, what's the problem?'" "For the majority of women, it's not going to happen that way," Paget says. Men also lack information about how to touch it and how sensitive it is, Taormino says.
A touch that's bliss for one woman may feel like nothing special, or may even be painful for someone else. Some prefer indirect stimulation. How can you find out how she likes to be touched? Try asking her.

Sex Mistake No. 5: Wet = Turned On

Guys sometimes get hung up if a woman doesn't get slippery enough for easy penetration. Don't worry about it. "I think there's a myth that if you're turned on, you're wet," Taormino says. Not necessarily.
Some women tend to get wetter than others, and how much natural lubrication a woman has can change from day to day. It varies by the phase of her menstrual cycle, and it's subject to influences like stress and medications.

Sex Mistake No. 6: Silence Is Golden

A lot of guys think they should be silent during sex, but unless you speak up, your partner has to guess what's doing it for you and what isn't. If you're respectful about it, a woman who wants to please you will probably appreciate some directions. "I'm not saying push her head in your lap," Taormino says. "I think that, 'this is how I like it,' is a very useful conversation to have."

Author: Martin F Downs

4 Sex Secrets To Keep Him Interested - What Men Want

So, you think you found the perfect guy. You're clicking on the emotional front, and now you want to leave a lasting impression in the bedroom too. So what's the big secret? It's not all about knock-his-socks-off sex. When it comes to keeping a guy's interest, the way you approach sex can make all the difference. So follow these four basic rules to keep him coming back for more. Don't believe us? Try them tonight!

1. Don't be a tease, but don't be a sure thing, either.
What many women — and men, for that matter — sometimes fail to realize is that there's a very fine line between being a tease and being playful. If you deny him gratification too often or for too long, he'll probably lose interest and begin to build resentment. While there should never be an expectation of sex, once that expectation has been created, it's very difficult to remove it without creating serious tension.
On the flip side, while men are inherently lazy and do love a sure thing, you also don't want us to take you for granted. Plus, if you're always available to satisfy him, he'll think you're no longer a challenge (and most men love a challenge). So if you can turn down a booty call every now and then, or say no to sex sometimes when you're not really up for it, he's actually going to want to see you more and make more effort.

2. Make him a believer, but don't oversell it.

Here's something that isn't exactly a secret: Men all like to think that they're “the man.” So you need to make him feel like he's doing something right! I can't stress enough the importance of playing to the male ego and placating his inevitable insecurities about penis size, stamina and the ability to bring you to orgasm. So if you're not fully satisfied, don't simply fake it for his sake; instead, communicate to him about what is working and praise him for the things he does do well. When a man feels consistently insecure about his ability to please his partner, he may get the urge to duck and run. A sincere compliment here and there will keep him focused on doing better by you in bed— instead of finding someone easier to please.

3. Underpromise, overdeliver.
As far as the bedroom is concerned, avoid creating false expectations at all costs. For example, no guy wants to hear about how great you are at giving fellatio if you're not going to perform it on him. And if you promise to “rock his world” and then don't? Well, you're setting him up for disappointment. It's good to be confident, but the less you promise, the less expectation you create and the more pleasant a surprise you can be for him. And when you're a pleasant surprise, there's usually going to be an encore performance; he'll want to see what else you have in your bag of tricks.

4. Desire is key.
Most women think great sex is all about the performance. Now, don't get me wrong — if you're really great at something and enjoy doing it, by all means, go right ahead! But it's important to remember that simply expressing a desire for your guy makes a man feel sexually powerful, and making him feel wanted will make him want you even more. So don't forget to let him know how badly you want him, in as much detail as you feel comfortable with. It will be a big turn on for him, even if you aren't the most experienced or skilled at any particular act.

Author: Michael Jeffrey

Camisoles and Corsets Serve Multiple Purposes

The camisole and corset are lingerie pieces that have double or triple duty and they can be found in plenty of women's wardrobes as fashionable pieces that can be worn under a sweater, or with a lace bra, under a jacket, or all alone.

The camisole is part of the emergence of form fitting clothing that is comfortable and worn by body conscious women to the delight of men. There is a blurring of lines with former lingerie items competing with traditional outerwear for women's attention and expendable income. The ever present, functional bra is now worn as outerwear and like a lot of fashion trends you may never see elderly women wearing their Playtex bra peeking out of their low cut blouse, but millions of younger women have seen the trend as worthy of following.

The practice of wearing a bra, preferably lace or sheer under a snug fitting top, generally in a contrasting color is widely accepted, while the wearing of a sexy bra under a sheer blouse, under a button down jacket, or all alone is not unusual anymore. Historically, a woman would never think about wearing a bra where even her bra straps were showing or heaven forbid the entire bra, because the idea of revealing a woman's bra was taboo only twenty years ago. Today, women of all ages wear their sexiest bras with no concern for who sees it or what they may think. This is not surprising as women are openly getting breast implants or wearing breast enhancers as a means of looking and feeling sexy and cleavage is definitely in, as popular culture places a high value on huge breasts and the sexuality they represent.

Next, is the ever present lingerie item known as thongs and g-string panties. Panties may not be worn outside a woman's garments, but no sex can disagree that seeing a woman's panties is a common, if unwanted, experience. With low rise jeans, skimpy skirts, and low back tattoos, why should they be surprised that seeing a woman's panties was inevitable. While plenty of women denounce the practice, the fashion of the day has led to millions of women wearing garments that expose their panties and to say that it is not deliberate seems senseless. While some may criticize the practice as trashy, it is an expression of women's sexuality and further evidence that lingerie is no longer to be hidden. While the trend may ebb, the need to be naughty or have one's own style is being expressed in provocative, sexually suggestive ways.

Stockings or thigh high hosiery is another lingerie item that can proudly announce that it's been let out of the lingerie closet. Women today wear skirts with thigh highs that are deliberately exposed. The practice of showing ones thigh high stockings is common with women wearing costumes, and other leg exposing clothing. The truth is that pantyhose are not as popular as they once were, and they make a woman susceptible to infections, they're hot, and some are just plain ugly. Thigh highs, on the other hand are plain sexy, and the movement towards wearing thigh highs is beginning.

It should come as no surprise to anyone that lingerie, which was historically in the past regarded as unmentionables, should emerge as sexy outerwear. Women have demanded more figure flattering, colorful garments and lingerie manufacturers have responded with more body conscious styles, perhaps it was inevitable that the sexy underclothing would peak out of women's blouses, jackets, and jeans. To some it is kind of naughty, while to others basically a means of self expression. Women's fashion has always been the subject of ridicule, fascination, and criticism.

Read more: http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Sexy-Lingerie-That-Is-Worn-In-A-Variety-Of-Ways/1158905#ixzz0oCQScNv1
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Let's Get It On!

Something funny about Jane Seddon, the author of Daily Sex- 365 positions and activities for a great year of sex; if she has a facebook she is pretty good looking!  Since I happen to have a copy of her book on my desk, she wins the honor of author and possible inventor of our sex position of the week! Jane must have been so busy coming up with a year's worth of sex positions, she forgot to hire an illustrator, and instead pawned her erotic artwork off on the public in the pages of her book. Luckily, it is still easy to make out what is going on in the picture above...kind of.

If you are a snobby sex know it all, and you look at the above picture and say, "so what, that's just a couple in the 69 position," you are soooo wrong!

 smarty pants

Though the guy's junk is dangling above the womans face (cleverly hidden in the illustration by an extra large nipple), there is no bj action going on in this position! NO!

"mouth closed please"

Jane suggests that the "Ladies, enjoy the view as your lover is straddled over you." She does mention some butt play, including a little stroke and tickle of the anus, with the finishing touch being to "grasp his penis and masturbate him after he has finished pleasing you."  Jane doesn't talk about how long that may be, since the female in this position is also getting no tongue lovin'.  The guy is supposed to prop himself up with one arm, while using his hand to manually stimluate the woman, and again, Jane highlights the angle and view that you get while using this type of stimulation. Ms. Seddon is very visual.

Guys, I guess this position is for the woman in your life who still doesn't want to give you head, but has warmed to the idea of the handy.

 yes, those girls do exist

Since most women are not built for, and/or do not have the stamina for an upside down handy, you are already in the right position to move it on over to 69!  Just give it time...good luck!

(girl image from freedigitalphotos.net, hot dog from growabrian.typepad.com, sad guy from mysweetluck.blogspot.com)

Ahhh Freedom, where have you gone?

Imagine having to purchase sex toys out of some creepy guys trunk on some dark corner of town...suddenly, a big spotlight hits you right in the face and some voice on the loudspeaker demands for you to drop the toy and put your hands on your head! Although this isn't quite the rush you signed up for when you went looking for some excitement, you're arrested, for being a deviant, for wanting to stimulate your own genitals, in the privacy of your own house!

 criminal or foreplay?

What kind of archaic third world country is this? Who would treat their citizens with no rights, and make law abiding citizens pay thousands of dollars in fines, and repeat offenders spend up to 10 years in prison?!? Well, if you said Alabama, you would be correct.  That's right, here in the good 'ol US of A there are laws in place that prohibit purchasing and owning sex toys, with fines running as high as $10,000.

 the "X" means no fun for Alabama

"But that's crazy!" you're probably saying, "there's no way a law like that would still be on the books...".  Actually, the latest ruling against it came less than a year ago. And there have been many attempts on repealing the ban, but each time it gets shot down.

The reason I bring this up, is because laws like these don't make any sense, and it's sad that the government wants to impose their will on their people and sexually oppress the masses. People wonder how there is such little education when it comes to sex and then find out that one of the most harmless outlets for self pleasure turns out to be a crime.  I feel bad for people in places like Jakarta, Indonesia, where women have to sneak around in order to buy any type of sexually related material, because religion of the area prevents it, and sex is considered inappropriate for women, and a mans privilege. Maybe its time to question exactly why having fun is so frowned upon.                                           

To brighten things up a little bit, there have been strides toward more open sexuality in the past 20-30 years, and if you ask any old man over 75 about how the youth today is out of control, deep down they probably are bitter that they aren't in their prime while girls are running around in short shirts, and even shorter shorts.

sadly remembers bloomers

Open sexuality leads to knowledge of what you enjoy most, and you learn more about how your body works, how can that ever be considered a bad thing? If you would like to begin the journey of sexual self discovery, I will let you in on a little secret...there is a place that has plenty of items that will enhance your intimate life, be it by yourself, with a loved one, or a room full of people all at once! Lover's Lane carries plenty of items that are sexual in nature, designed for sexual wellness, which is part of overall happiness in life. Check out their selection today.  And last time I checked, you can even order from Alabama! (it will be our little secret!)

(flag from unimaps.com, belt from selnadeem.wordpress.com man from thedisplacedafrican.com)

Snugglepuss!

Dual stimulation technology changed the sex toy industry, making improvements on more traditional sex toy designs of limited functionality. The Rabbit is an example of what exemplifies exciting sex toy innovation.

The 100% silicone Snugglepuss, likewise, illustrates the orgasmic benefits of playing with dual stimulation sex toys. But that's not enough, is it? No way, the Snugglepuss also introduces sex toy enthusiasts to convenient dual stimulation.

Its smaller size and unique u-turn shape allow users to experience clitoral and G-Spot arousal in total comfort, without an abundance of effort exerted on your part. It will do the work for you! Assume whatever position you prefer, and let the Snugglepuss take control.

The Snugglepuss's u-turn shape has two sleeves: The larger sleeve is used for internal stimulation, specifically your G-Spot. It comfortably slides inside of your honey pot, delivering wonderful pulsations. As you experience G-Spot stimulation, the smaller sleeve rests on your clitoris, where amazing vibrations stimulate you to no end. The clitoral tickler (the smaller side) is covered in tiny soft nubs that enhance clitoral stimulation.

Its power switch is located on the mid-base. A battery protector is located inside of the smaller sleeve. In order for your Snugglepuss to work, you must remove the battery protector. Open the smaller sleeve, pull the battery protector out, separate the two sides, and close the sleeve. Now you are ready for unbelievable dual stimulation pleasure!

Editorial Review

Snugglepuss crazies are everywhere and the Snugglepuss is flying off the shelves! Though it looks like some crazy crustacean scuttling about in the ocean, it is a new favorite toy of mine. I made the mistake of judging the Snugglepuss by its appearance - and that's why I review all these toys ... sometimes the fanciest sex toys don't do much for me and, occasionally, the stranger looking sex toys blow me away.

If you are like me, you love hands-free sex toys. Nothing pleases me more than a toy that does the work for me. But there's a catch: Not all hands-free sex toys do their job and in a few cases, they often complicate matters. If a hands-free sex toy is incapable of providing direct stimulation consistently, I end up spending more time moving the toy around than I do playing with it.

The Snugglepuss fits snugly inside of me. The clitoral sleeve does not put too much pressure on my clitoris. Balance is everything, especially with this sex toy. I experience both G-Spot and clitoral stimulation - and I don't have to mess with wires or imprecise vibration delivery. I have more fun with it than I ever expected to. I don't always have dual orgasms when playing with the Snugglepuss, but it happens often enough that I can justify purchasing it.

Additional Details

Size:

4" insertable length 3" circumference

Battery Info:

3 watch batteries included.

Material:  This item is made of Phathalate Free Material and Silicone
Manufacturer:  Vibratex

Source: http://www.vibereview.com/sex_toys/snugglepuss 

The Solar Bullet: A New Revolution in Eco-Friendly Sex Toys

Everyone’s worried about global warming and saving the earth and doing what’s right to ensure the future of world right?  Alright so we have eco-friendly light bulbs, coffee cups, laundry detergent, skin care products, and so much more. Our electronics and cars have come along way too!  So you’re thinking…why not eco-friendly sex toys?  Actually there’s quite a few that would qualify as eco-friendly, but the coolest one to come out to date is the Solar Bullet from Cal Exotics. 

This toy is awesome.  No batteries needed as it is solar powered.  Now I know you’re thinking solar powered bullet?  It truly is the latest in greatest in sex toy technology.  Let it sit in sunlight or artificial light for approximately 8 hours and get over 60 minutes of pleasure.  There is such a demand for products that are friendly to the environment.  This is 100% eco-friendly, the toy itself, the box, and the fact that there are no batteries to waste.  It’s versatile, slimline, and power packed. 

The bullet is made of ABS and measures 6 cm x 2 cm.

Position Available: Bodies Needed!

Looking for work is sometimes called "fulfilling a position", where you get to show up, hang out for the day, and dream up some sexy "positions" to get into once you get home. Sometimes you actually are expected to work at work, instead of imagine how awesome it would be to get naked, so let me get the creative juices flowing and your mind off the mundane with the latest sex position of the week!

Incorrect way to do CPR

This weeks position comes from the book Daily Sex by Jane Seddon.  Though the book's illustrations seem to be drawn on bar napkins while Jane was sipping long islands doing research for this book, and some of the text might seem like she had to be drunk, it definitely lets you and your partner explore plenty of different ways to have great sex!  The position above is named 'nuts and bolts', creatively coined because in this position the man's "nuts are accesible and his bolt is upright." Talk dirty to me Jane!  Ladies, the bonus of this position is while you have your legs straight out in front of you, you can make penetration both "very tight and snug". Again, Jane gets a little redundant in her writing, but she wants you to really feel the difference :)

Guys, besides the obvious bonus of relaxing while your lady goes to town on your "bolt", she also gets to play around with your nuts!  If you're new to getting some ball action while having sex, this may be uncomfortable, or may be incredibly arousing. *Ladies- be sure to ask your guy while you are working the nuts! Believe it or not they are just as sensitive as they are portrayed in movies and TV!*

Never a fun time.

If you cant wait til next week for another sexy position, you can always order up the book Daily Sex by Jane Seddon through Lover's Lane, and let me know which one is your favorite. (photo of ball kick courtesy of www.deathvalleymag.com)

The We Vibe 2

Your invitation to pleasure awaits...The We Vibe 2.  Who knew that a couple from the suburbs would end up inventing and marketing the hottest selling sex toy in the world!
Unique in design, this revolutionary product is the first ever dual vibrator that can be Worn While Making Love™. The innovative design with two powerful motors allows for both external clitoral and internal G-Spot stimulation for women engaging in both solo and partner play.

The We-Vibe is hands free, strap free and wireless. Created from medical grade silicone, it’s soft, comfortable and easy to use. Treat yourself and your partner to A New Dimension In Pleasure™.

What's New with the We-Vibe II?

With 9 exciting new modes designed to provide maximum climatic stimulation (Low Speed - High Speed - Throb - Wave - Pulse - Ramp - Tease - Ascending - Cha-Cha) and sensually designed to please you and your partner, it’s easy to understand why women and couples around the world are saying "Yes, We-Vibe!".

We-Vibe II makes it even easier "to get turned on" with a new intuitive push button easy to find on the We-Vibe II's nose. With just one push you're turned on to Low Speed, push again and you move from one sensual style to the next.

Treat yourself to Harmonic Throbbing™ and enjoy Throb or Ascending, Wave or Pulse, Tease or Cha-Cha; if you're even more daring, try all 9 modes for an intimate night you and your partner will never forget! (Or go solo and keep the vibe all to yourself!)

Finished with your We-Vibe II? Simply hold down the push button for two seconds to turn it off. Did you forget and fall asleep? Don't worry, your We-Vibe now has an automatic shut-off, indicating its time to charge.

At the push of a button, get turned on again with your favorite vibe within an hour of use. The We-Vibe II remembers your last vibration mode, and resumes play!

100% Medical Grade Silicone 

Made from 100% medical grade silicone and phthalate free, your We-Vibe looks after you while being environmentally conscious too!

Silky and slippery, the surface of your We-Vibe II is designed to glide into you comfortably and safely, while also being smooth and welcoming to him (and his condom!). Remember to always use water-based lubricant, and to never use silicone lubricants with silicone sex toys.

Source: http://www.wevibe.com

Treat Yourself Like a Celebrity

2 weekends ago, pop superstar Rihanna was witnessed shopping in Paris for *gasp* SEX TOYS!!!  Good to see that even the rich and famous have no problems taking their enjoyment into their own hands. No matter what kind of schedule you have, it always helps to take a little time out to pat yourself on the....genitals! :)

With May being considered National Masturbation Month, there really is no excuse for you to not pamper yourself and give a little extra attention to what makes you feel great. If you check out the link, it only took the firing of Jocelyn Elders to get the nation riled up about sex with yourself.




(sex symbol circa 1994)

So the benefits are definitely there to masturbating, including releasing sexual tension, becoming more familiar and comfortable with your own sexuality, enables you to find out what feels good for when you are getting intimate with a partner, helps to get you to sleep, can lessen menstrual cramps and pains in women, prevents the spread of STI's and other diseases that a potential partner may have, helps maintain pelvic blood flow and can help strengthen muscles, and even whitens teeth!  Ok, so the last one isn't true, but masturbation rocks! Plus, you never have to find a suitable partner and go through the the hoops to get them into bed, which is why guys have been masturbating since the time of the dinosaurs.

Ladies, you have plenty of options when it comes to fun stuff to help get the job done, and if you are looking for a little help from toys, check out some of the options that Lover's Lane has to offer!  From beginner to professional, there are plenty of options that may just make you realize how important it is to know thyself, and love thyself on a regular basis!

Under The Bed Restraints

Item Description

You have the power to turn your bed into a lover's heavenly playground. Your playfully submissive partner lays quietly on the bed, waiting to see what you might do. Glancing over at you with eager, blinking eyes, your lover accepts your erotic advances. One strap. Two straps. Three straps ... and finally, four straps. Of course, none of this would be possible without the Under the Bed Restraints providing you and your lover with a quality restraint system.

These restraints attach beneath mattresses, to bed frames without using damaging hooks that could potentially rip your expensive bed and sheets. Both arms and legs are strapped down by this four-strap restraint system that is durable, sturdy, and portable. Its travel-size design makes the Under the Bed Restraints a great vacation companion for couples who want to explore role-playing and frisky, fun-filled sex.

Though there won't be a dull moment experienced with the Under the Bed Restraints, you can add even more excitement to your erotic playground: A blindfold and feather ticklers add the finishing touches to an already sexy situation. Experience foreplay and sex while playfully restrained, blindfolded, and tickled.

Editorial Review 

Every VibeReview employee owns his or her own Under the Bed Restraints. That should tell you something about how much fun this restraint system can be. I actually had my Under the Bed Restraints months before VibeReview started selling them. I had quite a few days to experiment before I had to write my review, so I am intimately familiar with this bed restraint system. I rarely remove my restraints from my bed, as I play with the restraints several times a week.

I can't call myself a BDSM professional, but I assure you that, despite my missing expert credentials, I am extremely fond of the Under the Bed Restraints. I get somewhat claustrophobic in certain situations, especially if my hands and legs are held down. But I've never felt uncomfortable or anxious while playing with these restraints. I can't tell you why I respond better to these restraints in comparison to other restraints I've reviewed, but there's something calming about the Under the Bed Restraints.

I am apprehensive about serious BDSM gear - the kind that calls for "extreme measures" and "ultimate submissiveness." Both my boyfriend and I are entirely too headstrong to be considered submissive, so we view the Under the Bed Restraints as a sex toy that's more playful than serious. We get to act like wild college kids, bringing back some of that erotic sparkle that flashes when two people make love for the first time. Plus, these restraints give us the perfect excuse to be goofy.

Some people might assume that assembly is difficult and that moving the restraint system is a nightmare. I would've have thought the same thing, but I've learned that the Under the Bed Restraints are probably one of the easiest restraint systems to hook up, remove, and use. It only took a few minutes to set up everything and even less time to remove the restraints. Surprisingly, it's not too expensive - which, as some of you know, is rare with these types of adult products.

Source:http://www.vibereview.com/sex_toys/under_the_bed_restraints

How to use a rabbit vibrator

How to Use a Rabbit Vibrator
Granted, rabbit vibrators and other high-tech dual actions are slightly more complicated than your average slimline. But these fantastic toys are definitely worth a try, so read up and get ready to join the rabbit revolution!
The first thing to do is take a look at your vibrator and identify the two main parts: the "shaft," which is the portion that looks like a phallus or penis, and an external "bunny" clitoral stimulator. 

Next, make sure you've got your batteries installed correctly. Next, experiment with the controls before you play with your toy. Depending on the type of vibrator you have and the controller that powers it, you'll most likely be able to control two separate functions: The shaft will typically rotate for internal stimulation and the bunny (or other clitoral stimulator) will vibrate against the clitoris for external stimulation. Play with the controls until you understand which control operates which feature and what kind of action you can expect from each. 

Next you'll want to apply some lubricant. Most toys work well with a water-based lubricant. Apply the lube first to the shaft of the vibrator. About a dime's worth of lubricant in your hand should do the job. You'll also probably enjoy the experience more if you apply lubricant to yourself and the clitoral stimulator. 

Before turning on your toy, begin by inserting the shaft slowly into your vagina, with the bunny facing up. You'll know you have everything inserted correctly when the bunny's ears are roughly lined up over your clitoris. If your bunny vibrator also has rotating pearls or beads in the shaft, these will probably be near your vaginal opening at this point. 

Now you're ready to turn on your toy. Be sure to start with the vibration and rotation on low or slow speed until you're comfortable increasing the level of intensity. If you're not used to the sensation of a vibrator, the clitoral stimulator in particular may seem too strong. If that's the case, simply put a cloth, sheet or other piece of material over the bunny's ears to decrease the sensation a bit. When you're finished, just slide the shaft out and clean your vibrator with the recommended cleaning method for that material. For the best results, remove the batteries from your vibrator before you store it to increase their life span. 

Source: http://www.mypleasure.com/education/sexed/rabbit_vibe_use.asp

Assume the Position

If only Baskin Robbins could come up with 365 flavors!  Luckily, sex has been around quite a bit longer, and over time, sex is still being made in creative new ways, sometimes with ice cream!

  Without showing one of the impossible, acrobatic acts that would be more uncomfortable than sexy, I decided to give an example of one that any couple could achieve, so long as there is something of the right height to prop your partner up on. The book Sex 365 calls this position the "domestic harlot" which is in reference to humping away on what they say is best in this position- the washing machine. For an extra twist, turn that washer on spin cycle! kinky! Obviously this position is less than 100 years old, since no one wanted to have sex on any washing products before 1930. I know that nothing turns a woman off faster than telling her to do my laundry, but place her on top of that Kenmore and see if her outlook changes! Plus for the busy couple, you can always consider this multitasking.

We will offer up these different positions weekly as a quick and easy way to spice things up and get out of the routine.Its not always about being nimble, just find what feels awesome! Be creative, there are tons of sex positions to discover, and look around the house for plenty of objects to improvise with. If you have a favorite position, or place around the house, please share in the comments! (position image courtesy of DK publishings: Sex 365, ice cream photo: istockphotos.com)

Energize Your Sex Drive!

How to Energize Your Sex Drive
So while there might be many causes of a reduced sex drive, there are techniques you can call on that can help boost your sex drive. These include:

• Using lubrication to ease vaginal dryness and to help make intercourse more enjoyable if you are experiencing symptoms of discomfort.
• Exercising. Regular physical activity can boost feel-good endorphins and can also improve your body image, making you feel sexier and giving your libido a healthy boost. In addition, Kegel exercises (exercises done to tighten the pelvic muscles) can work to enhance sexual sensations and help boost desire.
• Communicating with your partner. Opening the lines of communication with your partner can help you feel more connected, and more inclined for romance. If relationship problems are spilling over into your sex life, this may be a good time to talk with a neutral third party (such as a therapist or counselor) to work on correcting any underlying issues you and your partner may be having.
• Aphrodisiacs. While there is no real science backing this up, a romantic evening featuring some well-known aphrodisiac culinary delights might do the trick. A little champagne, some oysters, some dark chocolate — who knows where it will lead? Other therapies marketed as aphrodisiacs, including various herbs and supplements, do not have any science behind them and also may be risky, depending on what the product is and your medical history. Talk to your doctor before trying any of these. 

Source: http://www.everydayhealth.com/sexual-health/regain-sex-drive.aspx

Before you say "I do"

Data shows that since 1990, there have been a little over 2 million marriages each year.  Because summer is the prime time for these weddings to take place, it means that bachelorette party season is in full swing!  Unless you live in a cave (which I cant seem to find too many women willing to do), or you have abandoned all friends and family, you have probably participated in this booze fueled party that signifies the future merry brides last night out. Of course there are more options than hitting a favorite bar/casino/strip club, but technically it is the last night out, so live it up!

Nowadays, part of the deal is to make sure that everyone knows exactly who the bride is, be it a sash that demands being sucked for a buck, or a headband with tiny bouncing penises placed on her head, she will receive plenty of attention no matter where the party ends up. But when you're planning this big party, most people are stuck as to where to pick up all kinds of fun stuff for the bachelorette, and they're left scratching their head.  Luckily, there is now a place to pick up all the items you might need to make the party a hit, from beads to buttons to cups and napkins, plus its easier than ever to check out the full selection.  Lover's Lane has just gone digital with their 2010 edition of the bachelorette catalog! Because the bride will be wanting to look her best for the wedding night and beyond, it is also a bridal lingerie catalog too (starting on p.18).  Start rounding up the girls and grab up all the accessories you'll need to make it a night that no one will remember! (unless you take plenty of pictures! and if you do please share them with us!)

Splish, Splash! Waterproof Toys!

So it's 6 PM and I've just gotten home from work. It's been a long day of work, I'm tired and all I really want to do is relax.  So where is the perfect place to relax?  My perfect place to go is my bathtub, which I fill with warm water, turn off the lights, and light some scented candles on the edge of the tub.  I turn on some good music on the stereo and choose a waterproof vibrator to take with me.

I love waterproof toys! They are great to use by yourself or with a partner.  After a long day's work when all you want to do is relax, they arouse you, stimulate you, and allow you to reach an amazing orgasm while relaxing in a bath tub.  If you haven't ever tried a waterproof toy, this could be a great new experience for you to try. 

Waterproof Toys in the Tub

If you want to relax, nothing is better than massaging your erogenous zones with a vibrator while soaking the rest of your body in a warm tub. Men, this works for you too! Any waterproof slimline vibe will feel erotic if you run it over your shaft or down your thighs, I would recommend the Inked Vibe Slimline Black for you. And if you're a woman, the reclined position of your body in the bathtub means you're perfectly aligned for penetration with your vibrator. I think the best vibe for this, which is also my favorite, is the Water Play G.

There's only one drawback to using a toy in the tub: unless you have a big enough bathtub for two, partner play can be limited. However, if you are a little creative, maybe your partner could sit outside the tub and stimulate you, while you relax and soak.  Maybe you could rent a hotel room for the night with a large bathtub for two so you can play around together.

Waterproof Toys in the Shower
Waterproof toys can be used in the shower as well! Again, for both men and women, stimulation with a waterproof vibrator can be the ultimate experience in the shower. Partner play in the shower, is the most amazing experience ever.

Another wonderful trick is to change the water temperature on your lover as you arouse them. I know a man whose lover enjoyed caressing him with a vibrator while she took the water from seductively hot to shockingly cold, and then back to hot again. He said the stimulation of the temperature, along with the vibrator, was so intense that he asked her to do it so often that she finally had to start saying no!

Either way before you use a toy in the shower or in the bathtub make sure to remember a couple things...

• Before you use the toy in an intimate area, always, always, always check the battery pack to make sure there isn't a defect. Turn the vibrator on and run it under the faucet. If it doesn't start smoking or sputtering, you're probably safe. Defects do happen and it's much better to catch them in your kitchen sink than in the hot tub on a moonlit night with your lover.
• Your waterproof toys will last longer if you dry them off after each use, and store your batteries outside of the vibrator after each use.
• There are no quiet and discreet vibrators in the water.
• Make sure you clean your toy with antibacterial cleaner after each use.

So give waterproof toys a try, I promise you won't be disappointed.

Source: The Lover's Lane Staff