Intimacy Advisor

Happy America Recycles Day!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 14:00:00 +0000

While I was stumbling around the internet the other day, using StumbleUpon! (this really great site that lets you browse through the types of websites that interest you), I happened upon a website that lists all the National holidays throughout the year. Now granted, many of these are not necessarily well known holidays, but they are holidays nonetheless. Who knows, maybe you might like to celebrate a few of them.

Today is America Recycles Day! Now you are probably asking yourself, "Lola, what does recycling have to do with intimacy?" Well, I had mentioned in a previous post, a website where you can recycle your broken, worn-out vibrators. This website, Rabbit Amnesty, is trying to protect the earth from anymore excess waste by asking you to send in your old, broken, well-used vibrators. In return, they are offering you 50% off the purchase of another vibrator. The website even has a Rabbit Amnesty Pledge you have to take:

I pledge to recycle my tired old rabbit vibrator with the LoveHoney Rabbit Amnesty.
I pledge to dispose of my electrical equipment properly at an electrical waste collection center.
I pledge to tell my friends about the importance of the disposing of electrical waste, including vibrators, properly.
I pledge to take good care of my Rabbit Amnesty Rabbit Vibrator and clean it hygienically after every use.
I pledge not to leave the batteries in my Rabbit Amnesty Rabbit Vibrator when it is not in use.
I pledge not to chuck my used electrical equipment, including sex toys, in the bin!

This is a great idea, and as long as the used vibrators are disposed of and disinfected properly, I think that a project like this can really help out the earth... because let's be honest.... every little bit helps.

Happy Recycling!!!

Lover's Lane Halloween Liquidation Sale!!

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 16:25:00 +0000

Once Halloween is over, Halloween Lane will be turning back into Lover’s Lane, but not before offering this incredible deal! Lover’s Lane wants to liquidate their entire 2008 costume inventory, they don’t want to carry any of this year’s costumes into 2009. That’s why they’re advertising a 3 Day Blow-Out Sale, from November 2 - 4 ALL Halloween Costumes are 70% OFF and all Role-Play Outfits (French Maids, Cops, Nurses, and School Girls) are 30% OFF! Don’t delay, head to your nearest Lover’s Lane or loverslane.com beginning on Sunday to save a bundle!

Sale hours, at the stores, are Sunday Nov. 2 Noon-6, Monday Nov. 3 10-9, and Tuesday Nov. 4 10-9. Visit loverslane.com to find the store nearest you. Or visit loverslane.com 24 hours a day from November 2 at Midnight (EST) – November 4 at 11:59 pm (EST). The costumes for the Lover’s Lane Halloween Liquidation Sale are on a first come first serve basis. Sale is good on all IN-STOCK items only! Items that are BACKORDERED will not be fulfilled.

Just something for fun

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 11:35:00 +0000

So, my fiancé is going to be a police officer, and it got me thinking... what are some of the strangest laws out there? Well, oddly enough many of them have to do with sex. Here is a list of some of the craziest sex laws (followed by some of my own comments*):

1) The only acceptable sexual position in Washington, D.C., is the missionary position. Any other sexual position is illegal.
*I guess I won't be visiting our nation's capital anytime soon....
2) No man is allowed to make love to his wife with the smell of garlic, onions, or sardines on his breath in Alexandria, Minn. If his wife so requests, law mandates that he must brush his teeth.
*Does this work for morning breath too?
3) In Fairbanks, Alaska, a moose cannot have sex on city streets.
*So... a moose can't have sex on the city streets.... but the people can?
4) In Kingsville, Texas, there is a law against two pigs having sex on the city's airport property.
*How many pigs do you know that have travel plans?
5) In Romboch, Va., it is illegal to engage in sexual activity with the lights on.
* I think I just might move there... I hate having sex with the lights on.
6) An ordinance in Newcastle, Wyo., specifically bans couples from having sex while standing inside a store's walk-in meat freezer.
*Come on, how many people were having sex in a store's walk-in meat freezer that they had to make this a law?
7) It is illegal for a man and woman to have sex "on the steps of any church after the sun goes down" in Birmingham, England.
* Is it ok for a man and woman to have sex on the steps of the church while the sun is up?
8) In the state of Washington, there is a law against having sex with a virgin under any circumstances (including the wedding night).
*I can't imagine.
9) In Oblong, Ill., it's punishable by law to make love while hunting or fishing on your wedding day.
*I think I would be have to agree with this law!
10) In Ventura County, Calif., cats and dogs are not allowed to have sex without a permit.
*I'm not sure I know too many dogs and cats that can go into city hall and request a permit.
11) Bozeman, Mont., has a law that bans all sexual activity between members of the opposite sex in the front yard of a home after sundown--if they're nude.
*Ok, I can live with that... just as long as I can have sex when the sun is up!
12) In Hastings, Neb., no couple, even if they are married, may sleep together in the nude.
*Well, I'll never move to Hastings, Neb.
13) In Connorsville, Wis., it's illegal for a man to shoot off a gun when his female partner has an orgasm.
* I should hope that's illegal... why would the man have a gun in bed anyways?
14) Women aren't allowed to wear patent-leather shoes in Cleveland, Ohio, because a man might see the reflection of something "he oughtn't"!
*I hate to break it to the people of Cleveland, Ohio, but patent leather shoes really are not that shiny.
15) In California, adultery is punishable by a $1,000 fine and/or a year in prison.
*Now there is a good law! To bad it doesn't work!

Hope you enjoyed this blog, and thanks to Strange Sex Laws for providing all this great information for me.

It's time for dress up!

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 14:00:00 +0000

Halloween is quite possibly one of my favorite times of year. I love that I get to dress up as anything I want, in fact, as Lover's Lane would put it, Halloween is a time to "Bewhatyouwannabe!" Be flashy or trashy - I'm sure you'll find a costume to fit your mood.

Here are a few of my favorite costumes this year! (Click on the picture to check out Lover's Lane's amazing low prices!) Check out Loverslane.com for these costumes and more!

And don't forget, you can fulfill some of yours or your partner's wildest fantasies by wearing a role-playing or bedroom costume! :)

Happy Sweetest Day!!

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 13:17:00 +0000

Do you have a special sweetie in your life? If you do, make sure to celebrate Sweetest Day this Saturday, October 18th. In case you didn't know, the Sweetest Day holiday was originated in the Midwest over 60 years ago. Every year, on the third Saturday of October, people in cities like Detroit, Cleveland, Columbus, Indianapolis, Chicago, and Green Bay buy flowers, chocolates, special dinners, and yes, sexy lingerie for the sweeties in their lives.

This year, celebrate Sweetest Day by giving your lover some of the sexiest lingerie around! I found a great selection of beautiful, glamorous lingerie; here are my top picks:

A Little Insight From Lola Love

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 19:03:00 +0000

So, the other night I rented The Love Guru from my local video store (I was unsure of how good it was going to be and therefore saw no point in investing $20 of my hard-earned money on it) and I ended up watching it 3 times! Now I wouldn't say that it was that amazing, in fact it paled in comparison to Mike Myers Austin Powers Trilogy, however, by the 3rd time I realized that one of the lines The Love Guru repeated was more than just a funny line... it was the truth.

As the The Love Guru, Guru Pitka (Mike Myers) says that Intimacy = In-To-Me-I-See. A good play on words? Yes. Funny when Mike Myers delivers the line? Yes. Is it ultimately the truth behind why so many of us struggle with satisfaction in the bedroom? Well, I sure think so. You see a large part of dissatisfaction and a lack of wanting to be intimate with your lover tends to come from a type of stress in your life or something that you are struggling with on the inside...even if you don't know it.

I am currently reading Sex Over 50 by Joel D. Block, Ph.D. (odd I know since I am not even close to 50 yet, but I'm finding out that this book is great for people of all ages) and he mentions in the beginning of the book three mental obstacles that many people face which make it hard to be intimate with that special person in your life.

The Three Mental Obstacles:
1) "Simple Boredom" : In other words, we get into a rut. The sex is the same, the positions are the same, and sex becomes more like something we have to do, rather than something we want to do.
2) "Assigning Low Priority To Romance And Lovemaking" : I know that this has happened to myself, my parents, and I'm sure many other people who are in a long-term, committed relationship. The daily stresses in life take over, taking care of our family, doing things with our friends, and we decide to push lovemaking to the bottom of our to do list. Dr. Block says that we "can feel guilty about planning a romantic evening together instead of taking care of others."
3) "Allowing Daily Life Stresses And Time Demands To Stifle Desire" : Basically, we decide that sex isn't as important as that extra hour or two of sleep we need, that pile of dishes that need to be done in the sink, the car needing an oil change, or that pile of work sitting on your desk that needs to be done now so you'll just work overtime.

The good news is, is that for every problem there is a solution; and that is where the line from The Love Guru comes in. If we can look inside of ourselves (In-To-Me-I-See) than we can figure out what is bothering us. Dr. Block gives an example of a couple where the husband lost interest in sex due to the fact that his job wasn't paying him enough. The husband asked for a raise, and when his boss granted him a substantial raise in pay he had this to say, "'The real surprise to me was the lasting effect this incident had on my libido. I felt more sexual after asking for that raise than I had in years; and the feeling persisted.'" The husband looked inside of himself to see what was wrong, he confronted his boss about being under paid, and in the end he was able to enjoy more intimacy with his wife.

Here are Five Steps For Overcoming The Obstacles from Dr. Block.
1) "Open A Discussion" : Talk with your partner about why there is a lack of intimacy in your relationship. Sometimes talking with your partner (the person you've chosen to spend you life with because you trust them, love them, and they are your best friend) helps get the reasons for the lack intimacy out in the open. I know I don't always realize things on my own...sometimes it helps me to bounce ideas off of someone else because (it's cliché, but) two heads are always better than one.
2) "Agree To Remove Critical Language From The Discussion" : Don't use negative words or words that could harbor a negative connotation. Talking with your partner should make you feel safe ... you should be able to speak without worrying about being judged or accused.
3) "Be Clear About Your Motives" : Make sure to express to each other what you want. For instance, recently I sat down with my fiancé and let him know that I felt like I was second in his life to everything else that was going on... I needed more attention, love, and one on one time with him; because I was completely clear on what I felt was lacking in our relationship he was able to accommodate my needs and things are back to normal again.
4) "Test The Validity Of Your Attitudes" : Are your feelings opinion or fact? Make sure you're not being accusatory towards your partner.
5) "Be Open To Change, Not Merely Sexual Change" : If you are not happy with life and you're not sure what it is, Dr. Block suggests changing something small in your day to day activities, "Start with easy changes, such as trying a new restaurant, having mango and kiwi instead of a banana in the morning, or buying a brightly colored shirt or blouse." Perhaps while you're changing your daily life you'll discover your inner happiness.

The In-To-Me-I-See is not going to happen overnight, in fact it might take months to get back to the intimacy you and your lover once craved. Just remember to look inside yourself for the answers and work with your lover to find a solution.

If you would like to purchase Dr. Block's book Sex Over 50 (remember it does apply to people of all ages) check out loverslane.com for this and all the items you need to bring your intimacy back to life again.

Busy Week

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Mon, 15 Sep 2008 11:49:00 +0000

Sorry I haven't posted a new blog in a few weeks, it has been a little bit hectic around here. So to tide you over until next Monday here a look back at one of my favorite reviews.

Product of the Week 4/13-4/19

This week's product is:

Grrltoyz Silk Touch Vibrating Egg

When most consumers shop for a bullet, they stick strictly to what they know... a boring, silver, metal bullet with 1 to 4 speeds. Although that tride and true version of the bullet is stimulating, the Grrltoyz Silk Touch Vibrating Egg will surely help every woman reach an AMAZING orgasm!!

A lavender, ribbed egg, the Silk Touch has a smooth velvety texture to its' exterior, a coiled cord (similar to that of the old telephone cords), a jackpin for easy cleaning and storage, a controller that has 6 different functions, phthalate free, and it comes with a 90 day manufacturers warranty!! Although this egg only requires 3 AAA batteries, it is the STRONGEST and most INTENSE vibrating egg/bullet I have EVER used! :) The first time I turned on the Silk Touch, I set it on the 1st function (solid vibration) on the lowest speed (the dial turned all the way to the bottom)... and Oh My Goodness... it was already stronger than the highest setting on any other average bullet out on the market!! Turning the dial on the controller upwards only made the egg vibrate harder and I quickly discovered that the strongest vibration may not be for everyone when the batteries are brand new... although after the batteries aren't so new anymore, the strongest vibration would be just fine for anyone. After being AMAZED by just the first setting I decided to push the silver button in the center of the controller to see what the other 5 functions could do... every function was a different set pulsations and vibrations, BUT the last function... function #6... is by far the best setting of all. Function #6 is a sequence of incredibly strong and quick vibrations that was unlike anything I had seen out in any stores.

Aside from it's amazing functions, there is one important quality to the Silk Touch Egg that not many consumers would consider a perk... a small tube at the end of the egg that covers up part of the cord, making it easier to hold during use. Why is this important??? Many consumers complain that their bullets stop working because the cord breaks or frays... the reason for this breakage is because consumers are using their bullets by holding on to the cord, therefore bending it repeatedly and thus breaking the cord causing the bullet to stop working. Since the Silk Touch Egg has that piece to hold on too, this egg will have a much longer life (I've had mine for 2 years now).

I hope you all find this product as "stimulating" as I did.

Rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Lola ♥

Product of the Week: Part 3 of the Men Love Toys Too Series

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 15:39:00 +0000

For the third installment of this series I want to focus on penis pumps. Many of the men who use these products either want to look and feel larger, and that's exactly what these products do.

There are many different penis pumps out on the market, however, as with many things in life... when it comes to penis pumps... you get what you pay for. And the best of the best is by Dr. Joel Kaplan. Here is a little background Dr. Kaplan and his amazing penis pump.

Dr. Joel Kaplan is a registered sex researcher and a certified sex therapist. He is known all over the world for his advanced knowledge of erection enhancement therapy. A Ph.D. in both clinical psychology and human sexuality, Dr. Kaplan first realized the advantages of a vacuum penis pump while working with HIV patients on AZT medication suffering from impotence. This discovery lead Dr. Kaplan to develop a vacuum pump that would help with both erection stiffness and size. The vacuum pump allows for men to gain anywhere from 1 to 3 inches in length and an extra 25% girth in their penises, and the vacuum pump also allows for improvements in penis size in just 6 weeks. This pump will help you to achieve your maximum potential, and if used once every ten days for twenty minutes, your results will be constant.

I have personally always been incredibly skeptical about penis, so it wasn't until I was working in a romantic/adult gift store during college that I realized that penis pumps really do work and are sometimes medically necessary. One day, when I was working, an elderly man came up to me with a prescription in his hand for Dr. Joel's Penis Pump. I couldn't believe that a doctor had actually written a prescription to a patient for a penis pump! The elderly man was kind enough to come back tell me that it worked wonders for him and that he and his wife were happy again. So in order to get a better understanding of how it worked I had my fiancé try it out. Not only did it make him noticably larger, but harder too. I'm not sure I've seen long-lasting results, BUT I do see the same if not better results every time we use Dr. Joel's Penis Pump.

All in all, I'd say that it is definitely worth the $99.95.

Rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Product of the Week: Part 2 of the Men Love Toys Too Series

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Sat, 30 Aug 2008 00:03:00 +0000

What man doesn't wish he was just a little bit larger down under? And what woman doesn't wish her man could be just a little bit thicker? Well, now every man can experience the joys of being a little bit longer and every woman can enjoy a slightly thicker penis with the help of the almighty COCK RING!! That's right, the cock ring. "What does it do?" you ask.... "Doesn't it hurt?" Well, the long and short of it is (no pun intended) that the cock ring restricts blood flow from the erect penis, causing the penis to swell and grow in both length and width. And to answer your second question, NO it doesn't hurt... if you use them properly.

Here are a few rules when it comes to using cock rings:
1) Use lubricant if your cock ring isn't very stretchy.... it well help the ring to slide on and off easier.
2) NEVER leave a cock ring on for more than 30 minutes at a time. You don't want to restrict the blood flow for too long.

Here are some of my favorite cock rings from the beginner to advanced, I promise you will not be disappointed.

The Cock Sweller

This basic ring has very little stretch, but works great with a little bit of lubricant. Slide it on once you are erect and see how hard and erect you'll become. Basic, yet effective! $8.95 Rating: ♥ ♥ ♥

Trojan Vibrating Ring

The Trojan Vibrating Ring is great if you want to help pleasure you and your partner. This inexpensive ($9.95) ring is disposable and lasts about 20 minutes... plus it comes with a condom! The vibrating rings provide stimulation to your partner's clitoris, increasing her pleasure and intensifying her orgasms.
Rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

And finally, last but not least:

The 4 Way Arouser Beaver

This all-in-one ring is more like a sleeve! It adds girth, length, and provides vibrating clitoral stimulation for your partner. Plus it's made from a Cyberskin material, so it feels natural to both you and her! It doesn't get any better than this. $28.95 Rating:♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Product of the Week: Part 1 of my Men Love Toys Too Series

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 13:00:00 +0000

Ok, so men love sex right? Well guess what, men love to use sex toys too (whether they'll admit it or not is something else all together). Most men and women tend to focus their sex toy purchases around vibrators, clitoral stimulators (bullets), dildos, and more... all is great, but they are all toys focused more on the woman in the relationship. So what about the guys? Well there are lots products available that allow the men to experience a little extra pleasure in the bedroom, and I'm going to cover those products over the coming weeks. But first, let's cover the kind of toy a man can use on his own during masturbation..... Pocket Pussys!

There are so many different kinds of pocket pussys available to the average guy... ranging from small to large and realistic to generic shapes, every man can now enjoy some AMAZING alone time. Here are a few of my fiancé and his friends favorites:

For The Man On A Budget:

The Love Glove. This simple masturbator is just $9.95 but it sure gets the job done (plus it's made from a Cyberskin material so it feels like real skin!). One of my close friends went to Iraq last year and returned this past May (unharmed thank goodness) and he knew he was going to be incredibly lonely, so..... His wife and I went to our local Lover's Lane and picked up a few to send with him and his platoon. The Middle East doesn't allow pornography or realistic looking sex toys, so we thought this would be perfect... it wasn't a dirty shape, it wasn't suggestive, in fact if I didn't know what it was I'd have no clue to what it was actually used for. It worked great for him and the troops AND they didn't get in trouble for having them. :)

The Saturday Night Special. This was the first toy I invested ($24.95) in for my man, and it would've lasted a long time....had he actually taken care of it properly.... but I digress... The Saturday Night Special has a real skin feel to it, because it is made out of Cyberskin which needs a little extra TLC than your average sex toy (see below for care instructions). With a realistic looking pussy at one end and a "backdoor" entry on the other end, men can decide whether they feel like vaginal or anal sex that night!

For The Man Without A Budget:

Jenna's Vibrating Vagina & Ass. Do you love Jenna Jameson? Do you fantasize about her? Do you keep her on your "If I Ever Had A Chance To Have Sex With This Person I Would List"? Well now you can..... well not really, but this vibrating replica of Jenna is close enough to fulfill those fantasies. The Jenna replica is also made out of Cyberskin and includes: a vibrating bullet with 10 speeds and 5 functions, pubic hair, and realistic vagina and ass. Not only did she feel AMAZING (or so I was told by one of my most trusted guy friends), but if you spank her, her ass shakes! Now THAT in and of itself is worth $199.95.

How To Keep Your Cyberskin Toys Clean And Keep Them Lasting Longer:

*To wash your toy, wipe inside with antibacterial toy cleaner and gently rinse with warm water.
*Place on a paper towel to dry.
*Once COMPLETELY dry, place your toy in a bag of talc powder (if toy is small enough) or rub it down with talc powder both inside and outside (if toy is larger).
*Failing to follow these tips will make your Cyberskin toy sticky and the material will tear easily.

Tips For An Amazing Masturbation Session:

*Warm your lube up in hot water 15 minutes before you start (make sure the water is NOT boiling). The warmth will help to create a realistic experience while you're using your Jenna, Love Glove, or Saturday Night Special.
*If your toy doesn't come with a bullet, pick one up (click here for a variety)... the vibrating sensation will take you from 0 to 60 in no time at all.

All in all I give each of these toys a rating of : ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Are you thinking Halloween yet??

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 14:16:00 +0000

I know that it is still August, but the Halloween parties are 2 months away! I can't wait! I'm soooo excited about it this year, I couldn't believe all the sexy new costumes that are available. Here are a few of my favorites from a new website: halloweenlane.com Click on the costumes below to check out pricing, sizes, and availability.

The best thing about these sexy Halloween costumes is that you can use them for roleplay in the bedroom afterwards. Halloween Lane has just about everything, and yes that last costume is the J. Valentine Candy Girl costume that Tila Tequila wore during Shot At Love II ... :)

Happy Shopping Everyone!

Product of the Week: 8/10-8/16 The Sex Swing

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 13:42:00 +0000

The Sex Swing

About 2 years ago I said to myself, "What could make sex more fun?" I had already tried all the latest and greatest vibrators, indulged in some of the most delicious edible massage products, and read some of the greatest "how-to" books available. "I know," I said, "how about having sex while suspended in the air!?!" Enter... The Sex Swing... It was one of the only products that I hadn't tried yet (at the time) and I was incredibly intrigued by what I could do with it.

Several people I had spoken with had informed me of what they used it for:

The first person was an older woman, and she purchased one because her current boyfriend (also older) was on an oxygen tank. She let me know that when they were having sex he would get out of breath from supporting his weight on his arms, so they got a sex swing. Now they can have sex WHILE he wears his oxygen tank and they don't have to worry about him passing out.

One couple I was talking with one day had picked one up right before the Superbowl. I thought it seemed a little odd to buy a sex swing for the Superbowl, but they said they were choosing to use it because then the could both enjoy the game and have a little "extra" fun too.

And so, I bought my sex swing... and let me tell you, I LOVE IT! It is just so much fun to experience an orgasm while swinging a few feet above the ground. Plus, the sex swing allows my fiancé to hit my g-spot at just the right angle and enjoy sex positions that can only be done while swinging through the air! :)

The sex swing is padded for comfort (which is great because I love to be comfortable during sex), holds up to 400 pounds (great for the full figure women out there), has adjustable harnesses, and comes full assembled with the hardware to install it in your home. The swing I purchased also has a positions guide so you have a brief idea of what to do with the swing... but my fiancé and I had plenty of fun using our own imaginations to come up with new and exciting positions.

It isn't a requirement, but I would suggest getting the sex swing stand as well. I felt much safer having the swing hooked up to the steel stand as opposed to having it hooked into a beam in our ceiling. The beam, although sturdy and safe, made us have to leave the hook in our ceiling (which was conveniently disguised as a hook for a hanging plant when the family would come to visit) and (because I'm paranoid) made me worry the ceiling would collapse (even though it wouldn't). Plus, the sex swing stand gave me a reason to dedicate a room in our house for our sex toys and what not.... maybe next we can install that stripper pole! :)

Even though the price is steep ( $129.95 for the swing and $169.95 for the stand) I give this product : ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Product of the Week : 7/27-8/2 Clone A Willy

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:11:00 +0000

Clone A Willy

Now our men have no reason to be jealous of our vibrators! I have no doubt that after that sentence all my readers have a big question mark on their faces.... so read on.....

A good friend of mine has a boyfriend who hates that she uses a vibrator while he's away on business because he feels like she's "cheating" on him (so to speak). So after having to hide her vibrators I told her she should just get a Clone A Willy. "A what!?! ," she said. "A Clone A Willy, it'll make an exact copy of you guy AND turn it into a vibrator. Now he won't think you're "cheating" on him anymore because your vibrator will be his penis!" She was still shocked, so we went up to Lover's Lane and picked one up (at a reasonable $39.95). And it looked AMAZING!!! And, the best part is that her boyfriend was more than happy to let her use it while he was away.

I also have several friends who are in the military, and they loved the idea of making a copy of their penises for their wives and girlfriends before leaving for Iraq this past year.... and their wives and girlfriends have been kept plenty happy while they have been overseas.

Here is how the Clone A Willy works:

The kit comes with:
*Specially timed molding powder
*Amazing liquid rubber
*Patented 'Liquid Skin'
*Stir stick
*Vibrator
*Molding tube
and
*Easy to follow directions

Step 1: Mix the molding powder with water
Step 2: Quickly (and I mean very quickly) mix and pour the mixture into the molding tube (the tube packaging the kit comes in).
Step 3: Have your partner insert his erect "willy"
Step 4: Wait for the mold to solidify (approximately 1 1/2-2 minutes) and then remove "willy"
Step 5: Pour the liquid rubber into the mold and place vibrator in the center of the rubber.
Step 6: Allow to solidify completely before removing the rubber copy.
Step 7: ENJOY!!!

This product shows amazing detail, and I know I was incredibly impressed with the copy I made of my fiancé.

Rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Product of the Week: 7/20-7/26 ... A truly LIBERATING experience

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 13:28:00 +0000

I don't know of that many people who think about adding sex furniture to their sex lives, BUT they should! I have been wanting a Liberator for a very, very, long time and I was finally able to buy one this past weekend at Lover's Lane's 1/2 off sale. I just want to say that I had some of the best, most comfortable sex because of the Liberator, and I believe that every couple in the world should have one, because they would not be disappointed.

The Liberator: Ramp/Wedge Combo

A set of two wedges, the Liberator helps to position our bodies for maximum pleasure and the ultimate in fun! I chose the Black Label (there is also a Blue Label) because I decided I could experience the same pleasures as I would with the Blue Label, BUT I'd have the option of the Black Label's restraints for a completely different experience. Liberator gives you a book with about 100 positions in it, so that you can experience all Liberator can offer you. The position book was certainly helpful, but use your own imagination too... sex isn't truly fun unless you use your imagination a little bit.

Imagination is what lead my fiancé and myself to remove the black velvet covers. Underneath the black velvet covers are purple, satin-y covers...kinda slippery alone, BUT with massage oil... :) We had some of the most slippery sex and it was loads of fun (plus my skin felt super soft afterwards because I only use massage oils by Shunga or Kama Sutra)!!!

Check out this product, and for a full line of all that the Liberator company has to offer check out: http://www.liberator.com/ ... they have an INCREDIBLE line of sex furniture... the Esse will be our next purchase for sure! :)

CHRISTMAS IN JULY!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 19:11:00 +0000

I got ahold of this and thought that you all might enjoy this information.... I mean how many times a year does a deal this great come along!?! As my friend Melanie said..."Half off toys are twice as nice as regular priced toys, PLUS they're double the pleasure, double the fun!" LOL I just love her!

This Saturday and Sunday at all Lover's Lane locations and at loverslane.com : EVERYTHING IS 50% OFF! That's right, NOTHING will be held back.

Halloween Costumes, Sensuous Lingerie, Novelties, Bachelorette, and more! No exceptions, No exclusions!

THE SALE IS ONLINE TOO... GO TO LOVERSLANE.COM TO SHOP!!!

USE SOURCE CODE: WEBCJ08 at checkout.

Now's the time to buy the Sex and the City vibrator, the Rabbit Pearl or a yummy edible massage kit like the Kama Sutra Gift Drum!!

Product(s) of the Week: 7/6-7/12...Things that make you go OOOOooooooo

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 13:42:00 +0000

I thought it might be a good idea this week to highlight some of my favorite items, the few little things that I cannot live without! All of these products are receiving a rating of 5 ♥'s... because they are truly ORGASMIC!

Shunga "Secret Garden" Female Enhancing Cream

I had been hearing about clitoral stimulating creams for several years before I decided to give one a try, and let me tell you of the few I have tried, "Secret Garden" is by far the best one yet!! "Secret Garden" provided an exhilarating, cooling/tingling sensation that took my orgasm to new heights.

Some of the highlights of this product are:

* Every woman receives a different experience from "Secret Garden", it cooled/tingled for me but it warms for others... it just depends on your body chemistry.

* Helps create lubrication

* Latex compatible and water-based

* Great for premenopausal and menopausal women

* Non-toxic

* $19.95 ... and worth every penny

Sex Rocks : The Oral Sex Candy

I bought these thinking they were like Pop Rocks (since Pop Rocks create an amazing feeling for your guy during oral sex) and when I got home I realized they were more like a breath mint. BUT, these aren't like any other breath mint, they are by far the STRONGEST mint I have ever had!! My fiancé loved it when I used these because it created a very cool and tingling sensation for him and the mint rolling around in my mouth gave him extra stimulation!! For $5.95 these are definitely one item that I have to keep in my "bag of tricks" at all times. :)

Head Candy

I arrived at my local Lover's Lane one evening and was looking around, and decided that I wanted to pick these Head Candy up as a joke for my fiancé (because like most women I tend to sometimes nick him with my teeth during oral sex). But what started off as a joke turned into a must have in our bedroom! The Head Candy consists of 4 mouthpieces (reminds me of the mouthgaurds I used to wear when I was in Karate as a child), so you get 2 uses out of them, they are a firm jelly candy that molds to your teeth to not only cover your teeth to avoid nicking your partner, but it also produces extra lubrication for a slippery oral sex experience! I was surprised that they actually tasted GREAT! Every couple months I pick up more because for $5.95, it makes oral sex more pleasurable for both me AND my fiancé.

And lastly.....

China Shrink Cream

A friend of mine recommended China Shrink Cream to me, telling me that her boyfriend loved the way it tightened her up, making sex more pleasurable for both him and her. I was a little leery because I didn't think that would really make me like a virgin again... but boy was I wrong! The China Shrink Cream tightened me up and boy was my fiancé surprised...it really was worth the $13.95. This tightening cream lasts for 24 hours and needs to be applied 10-15 minutes before sex... so you could put it on at lunch and then come home to your lover and STILL be tight! China Shrink Cream works great for women who have had children because it gives you that virgin feel all over again.

A few warnings about China Shrink Cream:

* Only use where directed.... DO NOT use on your face!!! It may tighten up your wrinkles around your eyes, but you won't be able to close them either!

* Only use a drop about the size of a dime and no bigger than a penny... too much will make you too tight and you won't be able to get anything in!

* Do not use if you are pregnant, if you have given birth within the last 2 months, or if you are on your period.

I hope you all enjoy these products as much as I do!

Product of the Week: 6/29-7/5...A Tribute to Wireless Toys Cont...

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 15:56:00 +0000

The Clit Flicker.... Amazing name, average toy. I was originally incredibly interested in this toy because it has a great name and an interesting box (people always say don't judge a book by its cover... but I always do ☺ ). However, when I got home and tried it out I was not at all amazed by this Clit Flicker.

The Clit Flicker from California Exotics offers a lot to someone using a vibrating cock ring for the very first time... wireless stimulation, easy to control bullet, and sturdy cock ring, BUT for an experienced person this might not cut it. Here are the pros and cons of this product:

PROS:

*Wireless - many times cords just get in the way of certain positions

*Sturdy Cock Ring - you don't want one that's going to tear easily

*Fairly Powerful Bullet - between the above average (but not super strong) vibration and the sturdy cock ring, the stimulation is consistant and fairly strong.

*Free batteries in the package! - you can't beat free batteries.... enough for two uses!

*Cost - a good choice to see if you even like vibrating cock rings..only $19.95!

CONS:

*Not Too Stretchy Jelly Cock Ring - even though sturdy is good, not stretchy enough is not good. this cock ring does not more than a few cenimeters its' size, but with a GENEROUS amount of lube there shouldn't be a problem.

*Average strength bullet - I've used much much stronger bullets (see my review on the Silk Touch Vibrating Egg)

All in all though, the Clit Flicker isn't a bad choice for the sex toy beginner.

Rating: ♥ ♥ ♥

Product of the Week: 6/15-6/21 ... A Tribute to Wireless Toys

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 16:00:00 +0000

When vibrators first came out on the market, it would have been unheard of to have one on the market that was wireless, let alone remote controlled. With the advances in technology in the recent years with cell phones, iPods, and video game systems like the Wii; why wouldn't sex toys also improve their techonology? There seems to be a growing variety of remote controlled sex toys available to us on the market, now more than ever! Over the next few weeks I will cover several of the remote controlled products that are available on the market today. So here is the first of many remote controlled wireless wonders for you to wrap your mind and your legs around.

The Remote Control Butterfly

I am very open when it comes to sex toys. I've worked in the business for several years now, and I have tried just about anything. BUT, I was a little unsure of the effectiveness of this product. I mean, honestly, who could get away with wearing this vibrator under their clothes, AND use it without being heard? Well, the only way you could really get away with wearing this remote controlled vibrating bullet, would be to wear when you're going out to the club, a bar or pub restaurant, or maybe the movies (people around will just think your phone is vibrating)... it's a little too loud to wear out to a place where it is fairly quiet such as the theatre or the workplace. Considering the fact that the bullet is not all that large, I was not expecting a very strong vibration...but, WOW! This little guy actually packs a lot of power!

So the added bonus of having a toy that is remote controlled is that the person with the remote does not need to be standing right next person wearing the butterfly. The packaging said the product works when both people are standing between 15 and 20 feet away from each other, but after testing out the product it seems more like 25-30!! Plus, there is a two second delay before it turns on and before it turns off, so you never know when your partner has flipped the switch!

The last thing that I really want everyone to know about this product, is that it will fit just about EVERYONE! The straps for the butterfly are elastic and they stretch an awful lot. I would have to say that they will fit up to women's size 18 comfortably.

Here are a few tips on how to have even more fun with this amazing product (trust me... these work great!):

1) Wear your butterfly to movies! As long as you don't leave it vibrating for too long, everyone around you will just think your cell phone is going off. Play with it during the movie AND on the way home, trust me... by the time you reach the driveway.... you won't be able to wait to rip his clothes off and have a night of extreme passion.

2) Take it with you to work, and put it on for your drive home from the office. He'll be so surprised when you walk in the door and you're the one initiating the "dessert" before dinner. **Please be careful using this product while driving... orgasm can occur and might cause an accident**

3) (This is just to inform you of a possibility) While wearing this out in public, it is possible that someone around you is also wearing one! If the other woman's partner turns hers on, yours will turn on as well, and visa versa. This can be incredibly exciting and totally erotic!

The nitty gritty:

Here are some of the specifics about the Remote Controlled Butterfly that you'll probably want to know....

* Uses 1 12v battery and 2 AAA batteries (included)
* Made from a Jelly material
* NOT waterproof
* Average price $89.95

Rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Product Of The Week 6/8-6/14

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 15:04:00 +0000

I sat down yesterday and read Ride ‘Em Cowgirl, Dr. Sadie Allison’s newest sex positions book, and I have to admit I was a little skeptical because I am truly not a fan of position books (I prefer the use of my imagination). Having read Dr. Sadie Allison’s Tickle His Pickle book a few years ago, I already knew that she had a knack for writing about sex in a way that was both easy to understand and completely comfortable for her readers, but I didn’t expect such an amazing and enlightening book!!

Ride ‘Em Cowgirl covers the usual sexual position topics, i.e. missionary position, doggystyle, and cowgirl style (woman on top), BUT Dr. Sadie Allison provided at least 6 or 7 variations of each position with cartoon illustrations so you could visually see how each position was done. The most exciting part of reading this book though was the fact that it taught me a thing or two, and it provided positions for every couple! AND, Dr. Sadie Allison helps the "cowgirls" to understand how to make ANY penis work for their sexual satisfaction and "cowboys" to understand how pleasure their partner, no matter how shallow or tight her vagina might be!

I have never seen a position book that catered to full-figure women or pregnant women. That’s why I was excited to see that Dr. Sadie covered those topics in her new book, and she did it in a way that is sure to boost self-esteem of full-figure women and pregnant women in the bedroom. Chapters 13 (Voluptuous Lovin’) and 14 (Pregnant Poses) covered positions for the couples with a little more meat on their bones and how to comfortably have sex while you’re pregnant. Dr. Sadie Allison gives tips in Chapter 13 like holding onto the headboard for extra leverage and using pillows to help angle your body for maximum pleasure. And in Chapter 14, Dr. Sadie Allison helps with positions for every trimester of the pregnancy, AND she helps the men understand when and why their pregnant lovers might not want to engage in sex. She explains to the men, however, that just because their loved one might not want to have intercourse, but that they can engage in outercourse, which is also covered in this book during Chapter 15.

This book is AMAZING, because it works for every couple, during every time of their relationship, from beginners to advanced sexual positions, intercourse to outercourse, Voluptuous Lovin’ to Pregnant Poses, and location sex to sex with sex furniture and sex slings, THIS BOOK HAS IT ALL!!! And I think that the lifetime of lovemaking tips I'll get from this book, $16.95 is a bargain!!

Dr. Sadie Allison recommends reading this book in bed with your partner, that way you can enjoy the illustrations and tips together, AND if you decided to try something out you are already in your bed. I agree with her, I just read this book on my spare time alone, BUT I can’t wait to go home and read it with my fiancé!

I know I usually only give a rating based on 5 hearts, but Ride ‘Em Cowgirl deserves so much more! 10 ♥'s!!

Rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

How far will we go to keep our earth "green"?

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Tue, 03 Jun 2008 14:00:00 +0000

You know, I can't say that I am a recycler aside from returning my pop cans for the deposit money. However, with growing popularity of becoming a "greener" society, I decided to look into doing my part to help the environment... such as... carpooling to help with pollution, reusing my water bottles a few times before discarding them, and conserving energy by not leaving every light on in my house... but I discovered that people are going "green" in the bedroom. How do you go "green" in the bedroom???

Here are several good ways to go "green" in your bedroom:

1) Use Trojan Lambskin condoms, they are only condom that has been proven to be biodegradable ... but these condoms do not protect against STD's, so stick to latex condoms for STD protection.

2) Choose a "green" sex toy! Several sites are promoting that 100% silicone products and 100% elastomer products are "green" products. Here are several "green" products to choose from to help your sex life and save our planet :
Rabbit Habbit Elastomer
Helix Real Tip Glass Dildo
Meany Vibe

3) Purchase some "green" bedsheets. You can buy Bamboo sheets, they are just as soft if not softer than Egyptian cotton sheets and bamboo grows without the use of pesticides, making it organic as well.

Here is one to go "green" in the bedroom that I am a little unsure of myself:

While looking to go "green" in my bedroom I stumbled across a Google search about recycling our used sex toys... my first thought was "WHAT!?! That can't really be sanitary!" I checked out the website for "Rabbit Amnesty", which is only available to those in the UK right now, and it informed me that consumers can return their used and broken rabbit vibrator, and they will take it apart, melt it down, and reuse the materials to make a new rabbit vibrator! Now I know that since products are being melted down at such high temperatures the materials become sanitary again... but are we really that desperate to keep our earth "green" that we're going to reuse sex toy materials to build new sex toys??? I will never be that desperate that I would risk possible infections if the product was not recycled correctly. But to each their own I suppose...

How are you going "green" this year? Does anyone have any other tips on how to make their bedroom a "greener" environment?

More from this month's magazine....

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Thu, 15 May 2008 21:16:00 +0000

Since I read from back to front... you can find this interesting tidbit of information on page 32 of the June 2008 Cosmopolitan magazine!

On the Hot Sheet the first thing is a sex fast:

"To maintain their bedroom mojo, people are engaging in sex fasts, says Ian Kerner, PhD, author of Sex Detox. How it works: By going into withdrawal for 30 days, you'll rejuvenate your relationship (or your outlook on them if you're single) and learn to look at sex as a connected experience, not just a physical encounter"- Cosmo News Hot Sheet by Molly Fahner, pg.32 June 2008 Cosmopolitan

Even though my fiancé and I don't have the chance to have sex more than a few times a month, I think I am going to participate in this 30 day experiment and I will report back to what it was like when we first were able to have sex again. Maybe I'll watch that movie... what's it called...40 Days and 40 Nights for inspiration. :)

I challenge you all to try this too... who knows... maybe our sex lives really will be rejuvenated!!

This Month's Cosmopolitan Magazine... June 2008

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Thu, 15 May 2008 19:28:00 +0000

So I picked up the new Cosmo this morning at CVS on my way into work, hoping to find a new trick I can use in the bedroom (although they are still being repeated for the 100th time and I'm not finding any new GREAT ideas) or maybe even find out something interesting about my body that I had no idea about (once again... I'm disappointed). Finding neither of things, I continued to aimlessly flip through the pages (back to front, because that's the only way to read a magazine lol) when I see the following article : The Sex Toy Hiding in Your Purse. Well the only sex toy I have hiding in my purse is the inconspicuous Lipstick Vibe for $24.95 (which I might add is pretty amazing and strong considering it's size)... so what did this article know that I didn't? Here are a few good ideas from the article that I know I will be putting to good use in the near future:

♥ "Name That Curve" - Take pictures of different body parts with your camera phone and send them to your partner and make them guess what body part it is. *I thought this was incredibly sexy and erotic.. rating ♥♥♥♥*

♥ Set the alarm on your phone to vibrate and use it while you're messing around with your partner. *Not a bad idea, but I think I'd just as much like to use my Silk Touch Vibrating Egg (see my review on this product-click here)... rating ♥♥♥*

♥ Make up your own flirty acronyms to text to each other that no one else would be able to decode, like UMMH (You Make Me Hot) or URSS (You Are So Sexy). *This is a fun idea if you are a little shy, I'm more of a straight forward kind of girl so this would only entertain me for a little while...rating ♥♥♥*

Hope this satisfied your taste for a little something different to try.... Cosmo doesn't always succeed in capturing my interest, so kudos on the interesting article (although I would've enjoyed a little more variety of items other than the cell phone).

Furthering my education for the benefit of myself and my readers!

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Mon, 28 Apr 2008 20:18:00 +0000

I just wanted to let everyone know that I just found out today that I was accepted to Eastern Michigan University to persue my 2nd Bachelor's Degree in Women and Gender Studies! I could not be more excited! The classes I have planned on participating in are to keep me as informed on the most recent information available... so that I can pass it on to all of you!

Not to get ahead of myself, but once this degree is completed... it's on to a Master's in Psychology for me!!

Product of the Week 4/27-5/3

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Mon, 28 Apr 2008 13:12:00 +0000

Hello Everyone! I apologize for the lack of product of the week, last week. So to help feed your thirst for knowledge here is my recommended product to enhance your love life.

REVERSIBLE CORSET by Dreamgirl

I purchased this sexy corset about 6 months ago, and I could not be more in love with the fit, the way it drives my man crazy, or the versatility. When I first brought this unique piece home, I laced myself up, looked in the mirror, and saw a world of possibilities! I realized that not only could I wear this in the bedroom TWICE without my man knowing I had already worn it for him, BUT I paired the black satin side with a black satin skirt and wore this for New Years Eve... and I looked both elegant and sexy! My friends and I decided to go out the bar last month, and I paired the pink side of the corset with a cute pair of jeans and pink heels, which is when I realized that the Reversible Corset was for not only bedroom wear.... this corset is also BOTH elegant and dressy AND sexy and looks GREAT with jeans!

At only $54.95 and a range of sizes from 32-44, this corset is perfect for EVERY WOMAN!!!

Rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Lola ♥

Product of the Week 4/13-4/19

noreply@blogger.com (Lola Love) — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 13:51:00 +0000

This week's product is:

Grrltoyz Silk Touch Vibrating Egg

I hope you all find this product as "stimulating" as I did.

Rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Lola ♥