Sexual Zodiac: December 2020

Sexual Zodiac: December 2020

You're always down for a celebration, Sagittarius, and it's time to celebrate YOU!  Don't get too caught up in the busy beginnings of the holiday season to enjoy some chill time, solo or with your partner.  We've got the scoop on this month's love and sex lives for all the other signs, too, so read on to see what the stars have in store for YOU during all these dark winter evenings.    

Spotlight:  With birthdays between November 22 - December 21, Sagittarius is the bold, brave fire sign whose members have an independent streak and a contagious level of optimism that's hard to tamp down.  Their symbol of The Archer is a reminder that they always aim high and go after what they want!  Often permanently giddy, being in a relationship with a Sagittarian is the closest you're going to get to having a nearly permanent "honeymoon period"!  They are eternally hopeful and strongly committed to their partners, careers, and achieving their life goals, though they might sometimes flake early if they feel like things aren't going their way.  Stick with them through the fair weather flights, though, and you'll have a confident, happy, loving, and independent life partner who knows what they want and keeps after it!      

This time of year is always chock-full of opportunities to truly indulge in your favorite creature comforts and your wildest desires.  It's okay to treat yourself; you've worked hard for it! A luxurious microrobotic clitoral massager like the Filare from Lora DiCarlo or a powerful Vedo Rechargeable Vibrating Stroker for the guys will definitely fulfill your quest for something new!  This is a great month to get adventurous with your lover, too, so a little BDSM or erotic role play exploration may fit the bill.  If your tendency to overindulge gives in to all the seasonal sweets & treats and it's got you feeling down, skip the gym and take that workout into the bedroom! An average sex session can burn 70-100 calories, and you can pump up your horizontal HIIT session even more by trying the positions and pointers in this fun Sexual Fitness book!      

Capricorn: December 22 - January 19

You find yourself in a contemplative state right now, which might involve varying degrees of denial, depending on your relationship situation.  When illusion-heavy Neptune goes direct in dreamy Pisces as we head into December, you want to put your blinders back on, but it's actually time to make some serious decisions.  You never shy away from the work that needs to be done, so make sure you're thinking critically and communicating with your partner or prospective partner.  A sensual couple's massage is a great bonding experience that can bring you two closer physically & emotionally. It might be a good idea to focus on "you time" and self-love this month to avoid making rash romantic decisions when you're so wound up.  The buzzy pleasure & luxurious feel of a LeWand Chrome Bullet for her, or adding the sensational Zolo Warming Dome to your masturbation routine for him, will keep you feeling good while you're laying low.  It's okay to take a break!          

Aquarius: January 20 - February 18

You've been going through some positive transformations lately, and now is the time to reap the benefits.  If you're feeling curious about a new relationship path or even just something new to try in your established relationship, follow it!  Try something like the Noje C3 Cock Ring that has something for everyone, or try a new adventure in anal play, and you might just find your new favorite thing!  It's a little hard to hold your attention right now, so embrace that distraction and switch things up as often as you please with the Switch by Shots Kit 5!  As long as you keep exploring your options and these changes you're going through right now, you'll have a great ride this month!  

Pisces: February 19 - March 20

Things have probably been going better than usual in the communication department for you, so whether you're partnered or single, you can finally settle in to a comfortable rhythm.  This month will have you craving closeness and physical touch of all types.  Pamper yourself with Coochy Shave Cream in Sweet Nectar so you won't want to stop touching your own silky skin!  This is also a good way to prepare for a romantic night in full of Creative Kisses and maybe a fun game of  Lucky Sex Dice.  Flirting from afar with a remote-control toy like the Venus Butterfly will leave you satisfied and closer than ever...with a partner or yourself!    

Aries: March 21 - April 19

The sun in fellow fire sign Sagittarius means you're going to have an exciting month for romance & sex!  You're feeling daring, passionate, and up for just about anything, and you'll be radiating that mojo to anyone around you.  Follow that sense of adventure and try something new to you, like pegging with a strap-on that provides pleasure for both of you, or amazing new sexual positions aided by a Black Label Ramp from Liberator...a book like Sex 365 will give you some great new ideas if you start to run out!  Just keep that fiery passion alive in your relationship and other life endeavors, and this month will definitely go your way!      

Taurus: April 20 - May 20

Venus in Scorpio will have you starting the month feeling intensely private, and that's's good to not always kiss & tell!  It may be a good time to take a break from social media, and focus on introspection about what you want from love.  If you're spending any sexy time solo, do it with a toy that will keep all its promises, like the Her Thrusting Silicone Rabbit, or the Vedo Torpedo Rechargeable Stroker.  You definitely don't want to make any promises you're not going to keep this month, so don't commit to anything like trying BDSM with your partner if you're not really feeling it.  It's ok to have boundaries.  

Gemini: May 21 - June 20

You've been busy and not very focused on romance, but it's time to shift gears this month.  You might be curious about what your lover is up to when you're not's okay to talk to them about's not okay to come across as suspicious; chances are your fears are unfounded.  An app-controlled toy like the We-Vibe Moxie might be a fun reassurance when you can't physically be with them! If you're single and seeking, it's time to start laying that trail of breadcrumbs (or pheromones!) for the one you want to follow.  If they read the signs correctly, or if you're already happily partnered, then switch to a trail of rose petals to lead the way to a romantic evening in.  Light a massage candle and give each other a sensual rub-down.  This will encourage closeness and bonding and help rebuild any sense of trust that has been lost.    

Cancer: June 21 - July 22

The sun in fiery Sagittarius is opening the door for you to have a fun-filled, adventurous just need to answer the call.  It's time to put yourself out there romantically if you've been holding back in the dating department.  If you're already partnered, it's time to try something to Spice It Up!  It's time to go for new experiences with your partner, whether that means trading sweet and sensual massages for a romantic night in, or the thrill of some bondage play if you've been wanting to try it!  Novelty is the name of the game this month, so keep it interesting and it'll stay sexy!    

Leo: July 23 - August 22

Things may have been rocky for you lately, Leos, but this month, you get back your shimmer!  Whether you make exciting new progress in your dating life, or just smooth things over in your relationship, things are just going SO. MUCH. BETTER. for you this month!  Ride those waves of pleasure with a new unisex toy for G-spot or P-spot stimulation, or try an exciting new anal adventure!  Stay ready for adventure on the go with a Smoking Hot Panty in your purse, and celebrate your newfound glow in the bedroom with the fun of One Glowing Pleasures condoms!  It's your time to shine!

Virgo: August 23 - September 22

You're in for a month of passion and pleasure, Virgo, if you can only let go of a little control.  The more spontaneous you keep things, the more fun you'll have.  A little role play in the bedroom might be a fun way to spice things up, or if you want something a little kinkier, you can't beat some leather restraints and a little loving impact play.  It's a great time to try something new for your self-love game, too!  The Beaded Rabbit Vibe or the Beaded Backdoor Rabbit will get you hopping with pleasure, and help you feel as valuable as you are.  Your orgasms will be more than worth it!    

Libra: September 23 - October 22

The full moon and lunar eclipse in Gemini on November 30th sends you into December on an exciting, albeit somewhat scattered note.  Focus that energy, though, and the possibilities are endless this month.  It's a good time to step out of your comfort zone when it comes to dating & mating.  Communicate with your may find out they feel like something is missing.  Spend some time bonding over a sexy game for lovers that's sure to end between the sheets no matter who wins.  A fun remote-control panty vibe that gives you lots of options is another sure way to keep the magic alive while you continue to explore your love this month!  

Scorpio: October 22 - November 21

It may not be black magic, exactly, but you have no problem putting people under your spell this month, Scorpio.  If you've been pining after someone for awhile, this is the time to make it known.  If you need a little confidence boost, pheromone perfume from Pure Instinct for her or for him will work with your body chemistry and give you that sexy edge you need to seal the deal.  Happily partnered?  You're feeling super in sync this month, and you know how important it is to work together toward the same goals.  Try something new and exciting together like warm & passionate wax play, or a mutual masturbation session with luxury toys like the Soraya 2 and the Zolo 360 Stroker.  Sometimes it's just as fun to watch your partner enjoying that much pleasure as it is to provide it!  

Filare by Lora DiCarlo

Sagittarius season should be about embracing adventure and new experiences for all the signs, and this gorgeous, discrete toy definitely fits the bill!  The Lora DiCarlo Filare is a one-of-a-kind oral sex simulator that uses microrobotics to simulate the touch of a human tongue on your clitoris...quite realistically, I might add!  With two swirling stimulation points, two adjustable ball heights (how far the stimulating balls press out of the silky silicone surface), and three unique modes of stimulation, this palm-sized beauty has customizable controls and an anatomy-hugging shape to allow you to explore and find your best fit & position...and your best orgasm!